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| life is hard i get that, but it shouldn't be impossible, if it's going to be this way forever, why am i still here? |
While we cannot ignore or minimise the difficulties you have gone through in getting to this point without having given up as a lesser person might have easily done, nothing which obeys the laws under which this universe operates is impossible. And nothing at this physical level goes on or lasts forever. Without wanting to sound totally insensitive to what you have endured with such courage, basically you have just probably unknowingly answered your own question.
It is going to continue to seem like it will go on forever until you make the changes which will bring this lesson to an end. As long as you view your life as impossible, it will always seem so. Yet clearly if it was actually impossible, you would not be doing it now. If you are still here, then it is always possible.
You are still here because there are certain lessons which still need to be learned before you leave. While it is true that if you do not learn these lessons this time around and there will be other opportunities to learn them in future lifetimes, the best time to do so is in this one. Everything in your life, no matter how positive or negative you might see it as, will eventually one way or the other come to an end.
While it might seem that this current situation has and will continue to go on forever, forever has no meaning at this level. There is a very big difference between the passage of chronological time which we measure with clocks, and psychological time which is basically how much time it feels to us has passed. Chronological time moves forward at a constant rate (although Einstein would have disagree with that statement), while on the other hand psychological time can slow down or speed up depending on what is presently happening to us, as well as the meaning which we associate with whatever event is happening to us.
Just because it might seem to have been going on forever, it has not been forever because presumably it must have started at some time, and inevitably at some point in time this current lesson will come to an end.
In other words what is happening to you now is finite, whereas forever is infinite and completely open ended. While you cannot turn back time and reverse all the damage which has been done to you or make out that these things never happened, your only true point of personal power to create a more positive future for yourself lies entirely in what series of conscious decisions you are making NOW.
Nothing about any of this is easy (it is difficult). It is always much easier for me to advise you to do something than for you to do it. While I feel that I have some limited understanding of what it is like to be in your situation and look out at the world through your eyes, only you can really know what it is fully like, because you are carrying round with you a completely different set of filters or way of looking at your life and the world when compared to mine.
You may only have a limited ability to change your situation (whatever it might be) for the better, although this does not mean that you should stop trying to, but you have a much greater ability to change the meaning which you associate with your situation. Sometimes we have to accept that at least for the medium term future the situation is going to remain basically the same as it has already been for quite a while, and instead change our way of looking at it.
A man who is imprisoned for many years can either use the time to feel sorry for himself and focus on what he has temporarily lost, or he can decide to use the time of his imprisonment as a valuable opportunity to develop a new skill which he can use when he gets out (hopefully something legal). So two men my both be imprisoned for the same time but because one sees it as just a prison while the other sees it as a golden opportunity for personal growth and development, the outcome can be very different while the situation is effectively the same.
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| when will this current obstacle be over |
Once again I repeat that to impose a time scale on this is not practical or realistic. The current obstacle will only begin to be removed and your life situation will only start to get better when you no longer view your situation as being impossible or lasting forever. The first important step towards moving forwards once again is for you to work on changing the way in which you think about your situation and challenges.
By itself this will clearly not be enough, but without taking this step all the effort in the world on your part is unlikely to have much positive, lasting impact. You said that you had done the necessary work for this, but your work is far from over in the way of changing your attitudes to your situation.
Once some of your negative filters have been removed such as the ones which say impossible or forever, that is when the true possibilities for significant positive progress begins. So when will this current obstacle on your path be removed, if indeed it was ever meant to be removed? Consider the possibility that you are the only one who can begin to remove it, and that it may not be removable as such.
You may instead of removing it need to find some way to get around it, so that you can continue to move forwards with your life in spite of it staying right where it is, as it it appears that it is not going to go away by itself any time soon.
The current obstacle will begin to be either removed or circumvented (got around), when you consciously choose not to continue to view your situation (no matter how serious) as being impossible or being likely to last forever.
The mental filters or dark coloured glasses you are wearing called IMPOSSIBLE and FOREVER are two of your biggest current obstacles to creating significant positive change in your life. Once you can make some real and lasting progress in the way of removing these mental and emotional filters, and only when they have been removed or got around, the potential for further growth and development really begins for you. It cannot be measured in chronological, but rather in psychological time.
You can effectively make the psychological time for your current situation to end or for your current obstacle to be removed or got round slow down to a crawl or speed up to a fast run by selecting which mental filters you are using at the present moment - your only true point of personal power to create a better future for yourself, with the help and support of both professionals and non professional persons.
I sense from your reading that this current obstacle cannot be removed or got around by you alone. It will be a united team effort by yourself as well as many other people whom you will need on your side, if you are going to give yourself an above average chance of ending this situation or removing or getting round this current obstacle.
Why not seek out and use all the help and support which you can get and afford, in order to give yourself the maximum leverage or advantage? To do anything less than that is only putting more obstacles in your own path, than are already there.
Can anyone tell you?
NO!
Unfortunately you will mainly need to discover these answers for yourself with the help of others, through direct first hand experience. It is the only way.
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| Having this psychic reading done by itself is not going to provide you with any satisfying and lasting answers to your timeless questions. It is only to be used in combination with information and support from a variety of other professionals and non professionals. |
Love, Light and Healing,
EoT
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