Your Higher Self or that small part of God which exists in all of us. It is through  countless lifetimes that our Higher Self gradually learns through experiencing every aspect of what it means to be a spiritual being occupying a human body for your soul to evolve the point that it will no longer be necessary to come back here again, unless you are doing it out of love for someone else who has lost their way and you have returned specifically to help them.

You the person did not consciously make this decision. Therefore it is not your decision to change. The Higher Self knows which lessons still need to be learned, and how best to learn them. And what type and number of life experiences which you ill need to learn them. You cannot change to the decision to be you (which was not yours), but you can decide at any time yourself to make different decisions from the ones you have made up until now, with the intention to get completely different and much more positive results. You may by so doing either bring forward, delay or completely remove the need for you to have to learn the lesson during this current lifetime, but if you do not then you will have to learn it during a future one, and usually at a much higher difficulty level than if you had persevered with it now and made the best of what is clearly a far.less than ideal situation.

 In your present state of mind which can only be properly diagnosed by a qualified doctor, you will continue to interpret it this negative way, no matter what anyone tells you to the opposite. While it is true that you do not have choices about certain things in your life, there are many others which you can have positive influence over, but your present filters are getting in the way of this happening. It is outside the scope and beyond the ability of reading to help you to remove your mental filters, but do not get the wrong idea that I agree with you that your situation is without any hope. I will continue to remain a part of your recovery or support team, but I am not willing to be its only member.

 

Such a statement only confirms in my mind that there is very little useful purpose being served by me continuing to attempt to help you to change your way of thinking, when your illness is still getting in the way of us being able t work with each other. I can offer you the keys to your mental prison, but I cannot force you to use them.

And even if I were able to force you, I would not do it as I have no right to intervene or come between your Higher Self and you. I will always be here for you to provide some of those keys when your illness has been properly treated by your doctor, but until then I feel that to continue to go around in circles and get nowhere fast as we are doing, now could potentially do far more harm than good to the good working relationship which I feel we have built up between us in the past.

I therefore humbly request a healing on your behalf in body, mind and spirit, and hope that we can smoothly pick up from where we left off, once your doctor has given you the all clear and you are once more capable of taking in the information without your mind twisting it into something it was never intended to be.

And please if you really do view your life only as a prison cell from which there seems to be no other means of escape than ending it all, then you urgently require immediate medical intervention and treatment from a qualified doctor, and possibly a need to be temporarily hospitalised for the sake of your own protection and welfare. Especially as you mentioned that you have been the victim of abuse, this is way beyond my area of expertise and beyond my capacity to help you deal with over the internet.

I have once been in much the same situation as you are now, and I therefore recognise the urgency and seriousness of your current negative state of mind, perhaps more than the average person would. If you will not do it for yourself, please do it instead for your Aussie friend, who is deeply concerned that he will lose you unless you can be given the emergency treatment and support from a professional that you both need and deserve to get.

May God be with you always. Even when you are unable to recognise that he is still there beside you.

EoT

Hi there,  I feel the need to intervene and say something with my professional hat on.

Life can be so tough and so difficult at times, at these times we need additional support.  That support needs to come from real people who are in your life and professional people from services based around where you live.

As a resource our ability to give you useful interventions on a day to day basis is limited as we cannot reach out to you face to face and give you the urgent help you clearly need.

I therefore recomend that you speak to someone within your family and ask them to help you to get the treatment you clearly need.

Kind regards

Suzi
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