Hi EoT, I don't want to break any rules... ;) I just want to be loved and find out whether I will find any love at all. With him or with someone else. I hope you have a happy Thursday in sunny Australia! I don't know how to add those little hugging pictures, but if I could I would!

Paige,

Nobody here is breaking any rules by not giving you a third party reading.

Giving you a third party reading about him WOULD be against the rules.

Your reader is not insensitive to how difficult and painful it must be for you to feel that your love for this man has been rejected. And because you are no longer regularly seeing and communicating with each other for whatever reason(s) there is no easy way for you to determine whether his feelings and intentions towards you have changed in the meantime.

Accordingly you have been reduced to either trying to read his mind by long distance telepathy (rarely successful), or what usually happens which is to use your negative imagination to fill in the details and make the baseless assumption for which there is no evidence, that any relationship which you once had with this man is dead and gone.

Remember that readings given on this forum are only thought to refer to a period of the next six months after your original request. So your question as to whether or not you will ever find the type of deep and lasting love which I feel that you so richly deserve to find automatically changes to "will I find love specifically with this man, between now and the latter part of May 2012".

Which basically sounds anything but romantic. Such a question as this one sounds cold and clinical and lacking in any feeling of humanity.

According to your reading the fire or passion in this relationship has not yet entirely been extinguished. The situation between you could potentially change for the better or for the worse at any given moment, primarily because there are so many different factors which could negatively impact upon the eventual outcome. But until either one of you makes the first move towards re-opening the two way channels of communication between you, this relationship is going nowhere fast.



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And unless you somehow bridge the communication gap which has developed between you, that last burning ember of what your relationship could have been if you had both only wanted it badly enough, will go out forever. How you most effectively bridge that communication gap greatly depends upon which of you originally decided for you to go your separate ways, as well as the reasons for making that decision.

If it was your decision to separate and the reasons for the separation were mainly your own then you do have a considerable degree of control over your situation. But if the decision and reasons were his alone, I honestly cannot see that you are going to be able to convince him to change his mind about you.

If you push him too fast into doing something which he is simply unwilling or unprepared to do at the time with the intention to save your relationship with him, you are only I feel likely to get the opposite result of the one which you are wanting. On the other hand is you passively wait for him to swallow his pride and be the first one to make the move, you could essentially be waiting for something which will never happen.

Because your reading has not yet quite given up on you and this man as a prospective future couple, it is not even going to talk mention the possibility of another man, at this point in time. Anyone can try to predict what the future is most likely to have in store for them, but your close relationships with others are simply too important to be left entirely to chance or probabilities. As your biological clock keeps ticking down to midnight, the nature and harmony of your close relationships only become increasingly important and of more urgency as time moves forwards.

My impressions for what you might feel they are worth are that during the next six months there will be one or more opportunities for you to heal the wounds which have opened up between you and this guy, but as to what and how much you will gain from these opportunities for healing being presented to you, is basically up to you. Opportunities are rather like  closed or unopened books.

You really never know whether they are worth reading or exploring, until you open or open yourself up to them. There will be several opportunities for you to find love with this man during the next six months, but unless you strike while the iron is still hot but in a balanced and sensitive to his feelings and male ego manner, none of these opportunities is going to bring you any lasting happiness in love.

Love, Light and Happiness to you,

EoT