Could one of you guys help?

Things used to be great with him in the past, sure we had an argument or two, but what relationship doesn't?  But a while ago I found out he cheated, around the time my sister passed away.  We've been trying to work things out but it's so hard for me to trust him since I found out  hes been in contact w/ her again.   I love him unconditionally, and my heart is still hurting because of the lack of affection and betrayal. It's going to take time to build the trust back up but and I understand it takes time.  

I would really appreciate if you guys could give me an insight of where my relationship is headed and if I'm doing the right thing by following my heart and staying with him.


Peace and love to everyone. Im so glad I found this space  ^_^

Happy Birthday  Hope you have a lovely day!

You know my gut instinct as a woman is to say run now, fast, very fast, but I doubt you will because as you say you love him unconditonally. Now are you sure about that because if you really, truly do then why are you asking for a reading that question that love?  He's cheated once and now he is back in contact, is he mad? Does he not care about you or your feelings? I hope you have told him what you are thinking and what you feel inside? That little diggin pain in your belly knows the truth, and when you bite your lip and hold your tongue you know the truth.
Build trust back up? What trust? He cheated on you and I would say that he most likely will do it again too, why else would he contact this other woman and you know about it? I would say that for months he has been distant and it is far too easy to blame that on his past dallies, when in fact has anything really changed?  You are in for more heartache if you don't do something about this now, or at least confront him with your feelings. You are worth far more than this, everyone needs affection and love and someone that cares for them the way you care for him. Break away, stand off, make a distance and then look at the situation. I bet you see it in a different light then.

I do hope you really have a great day and he treats with love and kindness, but there's a doubt in the information I'm being given, but you already see that don't you, those little things that he leaves, it's all there.

Bless you x

AWWW thank you hunnn  I  really appreciate the time you took to answer this.  I think I have made a new friend


I actually had an okay day.  He came to my house which he has been avoiding since October and that meant a lot to me.
My father spoke to him  about how he felt since they used to be close and work on music together.  
I think that helped a little and made him feel more comfortable with me. I was told that there's no more contact w/ this other woman.

But you are right, he has been distant for months now and we are getting better but right now we are barely hanging on I guess because I'm on guard.
We have a trip planned for Puerto Rico  in the beginning of next month and I hope with that, we'll be able to reconnect.

Thank-you so mauch for replying, I wondered about you all day. Have a great trip to Puerto Rico, you lucky thing, do let me know how it all goes