His name is Bret B. and i went to catholic grade school with him till 8th grade. i always thought he was gorgeous and i found him on facebook.com. im planning on messaging him once winter is over since i know he lives in the city and it's just better there once the snow melts and stuff.

when i was younger, there was this weird thing where we sat next to each other in class and our arms touched for a long time and neither of us moved it away for awhile, haha im guessing he at least liked me a little at the time. i have his picture if you want it, i have enclosed my picture that i used for my facebook profile. i dont plan on "adding him as friends on facebook" since i removed that option since im trying not to use that site anymore, but the messaging option on there is still up for him and me to talk to each other.

i was wondering how things would most likely go with us if i messaged him, like if we would just be friends, or if we dated and he was attracted to me and became more than that, or not even friends in person at all.

Hello you talked about all of this in this thread a couple of weeks ago.



please take the advice EOT gave you and implement it.

If you wish a reading then ask for a general reading and perhaps someone may do this for you.

Please remember that we get alot of reading requests and generally will no no more than one reading per person per month.

Kind regards

Suzi

lol no that was a reading about a guy named Justin, and i was told to get over him. i was gonna message Bret in a couple months when it got warmer, i was only wondering about Bret, not Justin at all. And that was from last month.

The most important point which Suzi is trying her best to make here is that regardless of which guy you are interested in at the time and want a reading about, you will not be eligible to request another one in either this or any of the other reading forums until at least February the 15th, which is exactly one month to the day since your previous request.



Although February 15th is only three days away I must admit that I am deeply concerned that you will continue to use readings as a way of ensuring that a relationship is worth proceeding, and act accordingly based entirely on what effectively amounts to no more than an educated guess or hunch.

This is simply not the way that you should be using readings.

You are asking us for solid guarantees that the relationship will be a relatively happy and long lasting one before it has even started.

If you are looking for any absolute guarantees about anything in this world beyond the fact the one day your physical body is going to die or that the cost of living and taxes will continue to increase, then with due respect you are probably living on the wrong planet.

Nowhere is this more true than in the confusing and frustrating area of close human relationships.

I have quite enough difficulty predicting with any reasonable degree of certainty what I might do in any particular situation, without predicting what Justin and now Bret will do over the next six months, and there is also the problem that third party readings about a person other than the member who requested it are not allowed under the forum rules which we must all work within.

So my advice for what you may feel it is worth is not for you to request a love or relationship reading until you have at least been regularly going out with this person for a reasonable time, in order for you to better get to know and understand each other with the intention to take your relationship to the next level if things work out as well as you both hoped and expected they might.

Personally, as I cannot speak on the behalf of the other readers who I work with, I would want the assurance that you had been regularly seeing each other face to face in person, in contrast to using a phone or the internet or simply having a dream about the guy) for at least three months before I would be willing to give you a reading about it.

Actually I would prefer this period of waiting to be longer in an ideal world, but since this world and the situations we live in are often far short of being ideal or "perfect", then I am being more flexible than I normally would by making it three months instead of the ideal six.

And when I do get around to giving you your reading it will be focussed entirely upon you and what you could practically do to help yourself overcome the many challenges which close human relationships almost inevitably involve at some stage.

Predictions about, how when, and where you will meet the man of your dreams, when you will marry him, how many children and what will their names be are reserved for fortune telling and the many sites who unlike Mystic Board forums have no moral reservations in charging exorbitant fees for a "reading" which in most cases is about as reliable as rolling a pair of dice or flipping a coin in predicting anything.

Our closest relationships are just too important in my opinion to be used as a basis for entertainment and crystal ball gazing. The only reliable and time proven method of determining whether or not your relationship has an above average chance of succeeding, is to do what I have suggested above. Just as you cannot win a competition unless you have actually entered it, you cannot know what a relationship is or will be like in the future, until you have one to know about.

After three months of regularly going out together in person with each other (in ancient times when I was much younger and fell head over heels madly in love with my current and only wife, I believe that this was called going out on a date) by my definition the relationship now exists.

While this message was originally intended for you personally, I sincerely hope that those members who continue to ask similar questions to yourself but have not been regularly going out with the recipient of their affections for at least three months will also read it, to save me having to say the same things over and over again and unintentionally offending or boring anyone.

Respectfully yours,

EoT

PS: Long distance relationships where in certain situations the two people are for a time forced to be physically apart from one another are even more difficult to read about, as a whole host of extra factors could potentially influence the eventual outcome, when compared to if they were instead living in the same town. Difficult, but not totally impossible.