Sindy you are welcome, but sometimes I just wish that I was proven to be incorrect for a change about what I was feeling of a negative nature for that person through my readings.

I do not enjoy telling the people whom I care about the most that some of their most cherished hopes and dreams are likely to come to nothing.

And I get a correspondingly big positive emotional lift in my spirits when both they and time ultimately prove my impressions to be wrong.

EoT

Great so what  implying that my dreams won't come true and that you have a negative feeling about my future?

Sindy,

I am not implying that none of your most cherished dreams can or will eventually come true, but based upon your life experiences and what you see happening around you in other people's lives as well so far, it must by now be patently clear to you that not all of your dreams will be answered with a YES.

I am certainly not feeling unusually negative about your future.

Quite the opposite is the case.

But it should equally be apparent to you by now that everyone's life including your own contains and will undoubtedly contain in the future both some positives and some negatives.

That is an unavoidable fact of life. You do not have to be happy or thrilled about it, but one way or the other you must gradually learn to accept this uncomfortable truth if you are going to make a life for yourself which feels worth living.

But that neither means that you should not continue to have and to hold on to your dreams, nor that you cannot work towards accentuating the positives and minimising the inevitable negatives which life has an unfortunate habit of putting in our paths without any obvious reason or warning.

Please be aware that especially when life is not treating us kindly that innocent words can often take on much more negative and sinister meanings simply by virtue of our own upset and disappointed state of mind, when compared to what it was the reader's original intention to communicate to you through their use.

Does this message help in any way to make the intended meanings of my words in the above posting, any clearer to you now than they were before I had typed it?

Time for a group hug?

EoT