To random, whom I will refer to from now on simply as J.
While I will need to include some basic information concerning your situation in order for this reading to make any sense to either yourself or anyone else who is interested enough to look at it, please let me know as soon as possible if I have unintentionally included anything in it which you may view as breaking the seal of confidentiality between us. If or when I receive such notification from you through a private message to this effect, I will of course almost instantly adjust and edit it accordingly to your complete satisfaction.
So to bring everyone up to date concerning your upsetting situation, due to an ongoing and compounding series of bad decisions and misunderstandings between you, the girl whom you have feelings for and her mother, things have deteriorated to the point that she is only going to allow you to see her daughter over her own dead body.
To complicate matters significantly there are legal restraining orders in effect against you, to prevent you having any form of communication or contact with this girl, by whatever means are available to you at the time.
Not that I want to make you feel any more upset or guilty about what you have done in the past which has contributed to this sorry situation than you are probably already feeling, but you freely admit that you have made same serous mistakes in the past, but I feel that you have paid your dues to society and are clearly willing to live with the consequences of your actions. Taking responsibility for ones mistakes and their consequences is I believe a very encouraging omen or sign that you are well on your way to once more being seen as a well respected and welcome member of the community in which you presently live.
J the 64 million dollar, pound or other currency question is, will this time when you are finally accepted and forgiven for your failings come soon enough to be able to save what is still left of your relationship with both her and her mother, which is without any doubt presently strained at best, and non existent at worst? And because this reading is only thought to refer to the period of the next six months or so, the need to answer this question is correspondingly as a result that much more urgent than it would have been otherwise.
Because of the third party restriction which I explained to you in more detail in my last private message, my psychic hands are effectively and firmly tied behind my back in the way of directly reading or predicting either what your girl and her mother are thinking and likely to do because of what they are thinking during the time roughly between now and early August (a nominal six months), I will need to instead take the more indirect and as a consequence more unreliable route of reading these things through her stalled relationship with you (making it no longer third party).
When I asked your question to my inner guidance by way of the Tarot, I was immediately prompted to draw the card named
The Chariot on your behalf. As people who are already familiar with my preferred style of reading already know all too well, I usually explain the meaning of this card in terms of the driver of a motor vehicle simultaneously having both the car's accelerator/throttle and brake pedals pushed flat or all the way to the floor. Doing this over an extended period of time is either likely to eventually burn out the engine or brake linings, so it is not recommended if you want to keep musing the car and not have it frequently off the road for major and ridiculously expensive repairs.
The corresponding engine in your relationship situation is your loving and caring feelings for this girl (if you did not still have deep feelings of affection for and physical attraction to her, surely it would not be such a worrying problem if you were rejected by her entire family). The brakes are much less under your control. I cannot tell you how the girl still feels about you or indeed whether she still thinks about you at all. Then there is the law and her mother to contend with to add to your brakes.
Now I am not questioning the reasons why this restraining order was taken out against you, and you freely admit that you were clearly in the wrong at the time which you did these unwise things and made these bad decisions which have now come back to haunt you.
But when I ask when will your mistakes be seen as merely a sign that you genuinely love this girl, and as showing that you are as fallibly human as the rest of us? I feel that you have learned valuable lessons from your mistakes, and are determined to mend your ways in the future. But how can you be reasonably expected to mend your ways, when the brakes of your love vehicle are all still firmly applied to the point of locking up permanently?
I am sorry to have to honestly say this to you as I recognise the emotional pain that it is causing you, but based entirely upon this reading I feel less than confident that the brakes will suddenly be fully released within the next six months.
I sense that the release of these "brakes" will be much more gradual and over a much greater period of time than six months would easily allow. And my gradual release prediction assumes that you do not do anything foolish in the meantime to jeopardise any progress you have already made in this positive direction.
The main trouble with this is that when we fall truly head over heels in love, our brains seem to turn to mush, and we often no longer think clearly or rationally and act foolishly without due thought and proper consideration beforehand, over and over again as though we cannot control ourselves in our passion for the target of our affections. Love tends to make fools of all of us, often when we are not aware it is happening.
Be careful therefore in any dealings or communication you may have over the next six months with this girl and her family, as once the letter of the law interferes, then your chances of getting her back approach zero to impossible.
Have no direct contact with her or her mother which could be used as evidence against you, and work instead on reducing the feelings of unnecessary guilt which are in all likelihood causing you to rush in where angels would fear to tread. Tread carefully and continue to work on your own weaknesses in preference to pitting yourself in danger of unintentionally pushing the button that could possibly launch love's version of World War 3.
Hopefully if you are successful at doing this, the girl will finally realise what she is missing and her mother will ease up on the brakes in her way of responding to your advances to her beloved daughter, accordingly in line with these positive changes you have created in yourself through your own efforts and courage (and self love).
Be kinder to yourself,
EoT
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