Hello. I had some problems with my skin, but now I take some powerful drugs. My face clear pretty good. By april or may my face should become almost perfect. Enough beautiful girls begin to like me, but I'm in love with a special girl; Cristina. She likes me and she has feelings for me. Now she is not ready to be in a relationship. Please tell me what she feels about me? Many blessings.

Warrior,

You asked......



In order to answer this question would require one of the readers to give you a third party reading, which is not allowed under the forum rules.





Therefore as your question currently stands we must sadly turn down your request, but my advice would be to rephrase your question so that it focuses completely back upon you, and no longer can be seen by anyone as being third party.

Hoping that this helps and does not unintentionally offend you as a valued member of these forums, or put you off the whole idea of seeking a reading about matters of your heart.

Respectfully yours,

EoT

PLease tell me when do you see a new love for me?

I am sorry to be seeming to be so difficult about this but I cannot give you a love or relationship reading about a relationship which effectively does not yet exist (just having feelings for each other by itself does not count), and without first knowing what practical steps if any you are taking towards helping yourself to win Cristina's heart sooner rather than later (beyond clearing your skin problems using powerful drugs).

To do this would be mind reading or fortune telling and there are plenty of other sites than this one who will claim to be able to do this for an often exorbitant fee. The main purpose of my reading is to better prepare you over the next six months thought to be covered by it, in order to maximise your chances of a long lasting love happening with the woman of your affections (aka the beautiful and desirable Cristina).

To prevent you from having to repeatedly ask a question which is difficult or impossible to answer through any single reading, could I respectfully suggest that you should request a general reading instead, and leave it entirely up to my inner guidance to decide if the current absence of love in your life especially with Cristina is the most important or urgent issue at the moment which needs to be dealt with, BEFORE we look at any possible reasons why your love life with her is less than encouraging or exciting at the moment.

In my experience, this is usually the case.

If she is not ready to be in a relationship at the moment, either with you or with anyone else, you may need to regretfully accept in the short term that your path is temporarily blocked, as I honestly cannot see you remaining simply each other's good friend for very long at a time.





Regards,

EoT

PS: Having feelings for each other is the first important step towards getting together, but it is what you do with and about having those feelings which basically makes or breaks your relationship with that person.

Warrior,

As I mentioned earlier I am unable to tell you exactly what Cristina is thinking or feeling especially about you, due to this needing a third party reading to be done which is not allowed under our forum rules. I therefore advised that it would be better to turn the focus of the reading back upon yourself as being the first party or person who originally requested the reading. But the question you came back with and this is a common error which many more members other than yourself have made in the past and most likely will continue to in future, was basically asking me to forget Cristina as you apparently see her as a lost cause and let you know who else might be on the horizon to replace her (if indeed you may feel that she could be replaced).

Although I did not suffer with similar serious skin problems to your own, I have personally known several people who have and I can clearly see the negative psychological impact of their condition on their self confidence and self respect. Being on the surface and especially on the face that you show to the world, your sense of self esteem is understandably tied up with your outer appearance which you judge as being so bad that it is preventing you from having a normal and relatively happy love life.

I applaud your courage in seeking help for this problem before it does serious permanent damage to your feelings of self worth, and it seems that the powerful drug therapy is performing miracles in the way of clearing up your skin issues which for so long have held you back from enjoying your social life, and putting your best face forward to a woman. However your reading does warn that while the drug treatment was absolutely necessary for you and your doctor/dermatologist to gain some control over the condition, without some well thought out and professional counselling to accompany this, it is felt that you will not get the maximum advantage from the help you have been given.

To cut a long story short, even though your outer appearance has changed radically for the better, your body image or the way you think about your face has not been updated at the same time. So according to the picture you have of yourself your subconscious mind there has not been any change at all, and you will most likely unless you do have this counselling keep responding to opportunities to get to know a woman better as if there had not been a change at all.

I know that this explanation seems more than a bit unbelievable and way out to be seen as the remaining cause of your difficulties with Cristina or any other woman you are interested in romantically, but the human mind can be a strange thing at times and please do not blame me as I was not the one who designed it to be that way.I am sure that it does have some positive survival function (although it strains the imagination as to thinking what it could be), but in your case this habit of thought is a terrible nuisance of the worst sort. Actually I had another word I wanted to use instead of terrible, but I am keeping in mind that such words should not be used in polite company so terrible will have to do for now.

It should go without saying, but I feel that I must say it anyway, that although I cannot be absolutely sure what Cristina is think about you at the moment I would be willing to make a bet that the new outer appearance of your face has very little to do with her attitude towards you making advances. It is instead felt as I previewed above and based upon what I am reading between the lines that it is your own negative expectations and continual focus on your face as the source of your difficulties that she is picking up on and reacting in a negative manner to.

So if I were to be asked what it is that you could practically do during the next six months to greatly improve your chances that Cristina would be more open to your affections, I would say with a high level of confidence that any way of improving your mind's body image to match your almost perfect countenance (preferably through getting professional/medical counselling to help you to do this in a shorter period of time than it would have been possible or practical, if you had done it instead entirely by yourself) should be if it is not already at the top of your to do list.

Improve your inner body image to better match your outer appearance, and I for one do not feel that wining Cristina's heart is such a lost cause as your most recent question seemed to suggest that you were thinking.

Putting your facial skin imperfections aside for the moment (always easier said than done), your outer appearance is only one part or aspect of whom you are as a whole person.

While it is understandably human that you place such a lot of your faith in your skin's condition to help make you feel more lovable and attractive to women, unless they are horribly shallow people it is the type of person you are inside that skin in the way of your personal values and integrity which is felt to be much more likely to help them decide if you are the man for them.

I am sure that they are quite open to putting up with a few outer blemishes and more minor skin imperfections in their life partner if at the same time they are a decent and good person such as yourself.

So my parting message is that although your face skin condition does probably play some undefined role in making you more attractive to members of the opposite gender, you could have the most perfect face in the world but if you are untrustworthy and unwilling or unable to give up being a single man with all that this means to you, then the clearest skin in the world is not going to do you a spot of good when it comes to women seeing you as a good catch.

Hoping that this reading helps you in some small way, and that Cristina responds as positively to your inner as well as your outer changes as your reading predicts might happen during the next six months. But even if she did turn out not to be so shallow that your face is going to make such a difference to the way that she thinks about you as her prospective partner (which is felt to be highly unlikely, but still always possible), then some other lucky woman is going to get the benefit of her shallowness instead.

Sounds to me that whatever way this situation eventually works out, you cannot lose.

A WIN - WIN situation both for yourself, as well as for the very fortune woman indeed who wins your heart and sees the real you who lies behind the skin on your face.

Take good care of yourself,

eye_of_tiger