I don't think that Facevalue did anything else then try to help the best way he could.  so no need for this post from you.

I think you will achieve a great benefit if you start to work with yourself.

It seems for me that you are insecure, and easy to take offence.
You will like Readings to lead your life, so that you don't need to do it yourself.



This is a wrong way to go, and you only hurt yourself.

You are almost 40, and its time that you start to live your own life, take your own decisions, and try to see them through.

No Reading WHATSOEVER can fix problems, can give you PARTNERS or whatever...only YOU by your own action can do that.

This is NOT said in order to be cruel to you, but to help you.

If everyone just gives you a reading and not point out the obvious, then they just lull you into a dream world, and you loose momentum, and you will sit alone.

It is also very important to have a positive outlook on life, this will attract similar peoples, and help you to keep your energies high.
If we look for negative thing, then we will find them, just like the above post, but they was not Negative from the sender. This kind of outlook will burn your energies, and you will feel exhausted.
If we first is on lookout for "attack" then we can't change our way, in an easy way, if we come into a relationship, and that might damage or destroy the relationship early on.....so positivity is important all the way.

Take your life back, and good luck!

Rhuto, are you messing with me now? Are you seriously sitting behind your computer spewing new age crap, accusing anyone who stands up for themselves on you board "insecure" and wanting readings to take over their life?? You don't know me outside of Adam. Think about why you are a site administrator on a psychic reading, horary and tarot board that begs people NOT to ask for psychic, reading or tarot cards at each chance he gets. I've been watching your posts and you are quick to attack and preach yourself. I am not accusing you - as you are the one that does this to others instead, but I AM mirroring your own hypocracy. You have no idea who I am, how strong I am, or what I have experienced. I don't subscribe to your pacification and positively suggest you find a nicer hobby than being torn in two on mysticboard. Don't ever give me unsolicited advice. Examine yourself first. I did nothing against rules of the board, you blatantly misunderstood my reading request, (i have a right to ask anything that's not illegal without being  told what you write above.)

Look at your 85 post....nothing is better then I am wrong...but then please set your self in motion, because what you are doing now creates nothing!

This you can tell.....IF you are on a paid service, and have asked a specefic Reader for help.

You are now on a public service, where everyone it entitled to give an answer if they themselves believe they do you a favour!

You are on the other hand entitled to ignore any advice what so ever, B U T you are not entitled to call any advice or Reading for not wanted!

An advice is equal any Reading, and in your case I feel my advice is far better then any of the Readings given you here, or paid elsewhere.

Why?

Because I urge you to get out of the teenage and into your grown age.

I urge you to take command of your own life...to create a future...to DO something for yourself.

IF this is something you do already....then I feel you are wasting your time asking for readings...then it is better to start to build yourself up....because that benefits you...that gives you values...which again might bring love into your life, which a reading of any kind will not produce!

So you can be mad at me...you can call me an old grumpy fellow with no sense what so ever.............but where do that put you?

"So you can be mad at me...you can call me an old grumpy fellow with no sense what so ever.............but where do that put you?"- Rhutobello

I'm not mad at you in the least and you are now projecting and imagining things I didn't say once again.

Words are 10% of communication, voice qualities 20% and body language 70% that's why misundertandings may be happening so often on this board. As I look around here, I see a lot of intensity and a little hypocracy once in a while. This happens constantly on the i-net and why there are so many emoticons to try to help. No, I'm not touchy -see that's my point! I am not teen-aged. You don't know what my tone is and that I'm actually smiling over here. And just because I didn't pay for a reading is not reason for you to call me teenage-brained, hurting or whatever else you spewed above.

This is why I question you. As a Moderator or Sight Administrator, one's job is to be impartial and not even offer advice to be able to do their job properly. You are supposed to make this board "THE READING REQUEST" board a place where people feel they can asked without getting pegged in the ass wtiha rubber bullet. Do you see my point?

Again, you call me names and patronize (as you did above) but it doesn't register because it's wrong. This is not your job here anyway. It may be the internet, but that's not an exuse to throw common decency out your window.