Hulahoo,

When I click on your subject heading I am told that no posts exist for this topic.

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Whatever is the reason for this all too common problem, PLEASE TRY TO POST IT AGAIN AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, AS I AM PATIENTLY WAITING TO BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU YOUR JOB AND CAREER READING, BUT ONLY ONCE I HAVE SUCCESSFULLY RECEIVED YOUR WRITTEN REQUEST TO DO SO.
 
Yours faithfully,

eye_of_tiger  

Job and career reading

Hi! It's me again, my birthdate is July 13, 1959.  Thanks for your previous assistance to

my first inquiry, it's been a great help.

Rightnow, I have another set of questions to refer to you before I finally decide what to

do.  The company I am working right now is unstable and I am looking forward to apply for a

new job.  Will I be hired if I applied to the prospective company I have in mind as QA?

I am also having problems with my co-employees and most of all with my Manager due to a

previous I would say questionable mutual relationship with my previous supervisor. Do I

need to move on to a new job to keep me away from these rumorsand end up my sufferings?

My second option is to go back to the first company I worked with, however, I would like to

know, if EC is in a relationship rightnow.  How is he doing after my revelations to him tru

FB? I would like to see him personally and ask if he will allow me to apply as QA this time

to TP, although I am not sure about his feelings and reactions just in case. I would also

like to know this person and make it up for a second chance if the odds would be kind

enough this time.

I am confused about what is going on around me rightnow, so I'm seeking for your kind

assistance to make sure I will be making the right move for my career.  

Any kind of assistance that you could extend to me would be very much appreciated.
More power to you!

Hulahoo

Hulahoo,      

So many potentially unanswerable questions with such limited time, space and energy available for me to be able to satisfactorily answer them on your behalf.



While I feel deeply humbled and take your obvious confidence and trust in me as as reader as a great personal compliment, there is no reading I could possibly offer you that will make you 100% sure that you are making the right move for your career.

Actually come to think of it any reading I could give you would I feel be unlikely to do any better than to make you 50% sure that you are indeed heading in the right career direction.

Partly this is because of the built in limitations of the reading process itself, and partly in your case it is because you have unwisely in my opinion tied the chances of success in your career with success in your relationships so closely together, that one entirely depends on the other.

This is I believe makes it far less likely that such a reading will be of any positive help to you. And success with your relationship with this person depends on the failure of any relationships they may already be in. So in a manner your career success is being linked indirectly and possibly to someone else's relationship breaking up with much unhappiness for them, so that you can presumably at least on the surface assure success in your love life and your career at the same time.

Normally we are only able and allowed to answer one question about one life area per monthly reading on this board. Because you have provided me with a long list of complicated and highly interdependent questions I have one of two main options on offer to me as your reader. Either I can choose only one question and read about it in detail, or alternately I can read all the questions, but only briefly for each one. I have decided on the second or latter option as the best choice this time.

I am genuinely sorry if the following offends you or gives you the mistaken impression that I am judging your values or that I think any lesser of you as a person because you asked me these questions, but I can only pass on to you as accurately and completely as it is humanly possible what comes through the reading on your behalf and in what are felt to be your best interests. So if you do not like or agree with what has been said, please do not kill this humble messenger.



The main intended purpose of my readings is never to attempt to predict what the person's future will be, because this assumes that there is always only one possible future to predict. But there are actually a large number of possible alternate future outcomes with regards to how well you would likely do as an employee of that particular company, from which mainly as a result of your actions and decisions made in the present moment will eventually selected your one personal future.

If on the other hand your future is predestined and effectively set in stone (which I am almost 100% sure is not the case, other than perhaps you were born, your body will eventually die, and the cost of living and number and size of taxes will continue to get bigger), then nothing you could possibly do or not do to improve the situation is going to make a single gram of difference.

So in summary, I predict that if you give of your very best effort in learning the ropes of this new job and not allow your love life and working life to interfere with each other, that you will have a 50% chance or better of making a success of it within the next six months after you have started working there (the specific period of time believed to be covered by my readings).



If you yourself believed that having a relationship with your supervisor at work was questionable (and I tend to agree with you that it was), then why are you so surprised that there is no shortage of rumors about exactly what happened between you from both your manager and your co-employees? I do not wish to appear judgmental about your decision to have a relationship with your work supervisor, and by mutual do you also mean that your supervisor and manager had a relationship at the same time as you had one with your supervisor?

Honestly I am quickly getting more lost and confused as I go along, not only be how every person or factor in your questions are so highly dependent on all the others, but also by all these initials like QA, EC, FB  and TP. Or was it that you saw the relationship between your manager and supervisor to be improper, but your relationship with your supervisor was not? Who is judging who here, and who is the person who has the right to cast the first stone. It has been said many times by people much wiser than both of us that “Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones”.

What energies and attitudes we put out into our surroundings will eventually one way or the other be returned to or reflected back on us in even greater measure. If I understand what you are saying correctly, and I am willing and ready to be corrected if I have not got your meaning clear in my mind, any gossip and rumors that you are getting back from your manager and co-employees is only what you may have unknowingly brought upon yourself.

And if you are (and I sincerely hope that you are not) a person with particular rigid or inflexible attitude or set of beliefs about what relationships are improper at work, when one you yourself either have or plan to have is automatically a proper one, then this problem will most likely follow you into any other job with another company you may have in the future. You would only be dragging your negative emotional baggage or dirty linen along behind you wherever you were working at the time.

Do you need to move on to a new job to keep yourself away from these rumors and end your sufferings?

You could try it if you like, but I feel based upon your reading that you would quickly discover too late that it did not work. The problem which is within you has followed you from your previous work place?



With due respect to you as a valued member and friend, that is none of your business. In order to answer this I would be required to invade EC's right to the privacy of EC's thoughts and feelings through giving you a third party reading which is not allowed on this site. This is where it is felt that you are playing with fire by making your success or otherwise at your job so dependent on whether or not EC will be available to you as a love partner, and not simply as a work colleague or friend of yours.

Now if EC is not already in an existing romantic relationship, does this then tell us that you will find the job much easier and more satisfying, but only because you are in love with a man who already works there? While the whole idea may seem attractive, aren't you trying to have your cake and eat it too? If you unwisely make your success or otherwise on the job so heavily dependent on whether you are able to have a satisfying relationship with your co-employee, then I cannot even hazard a worthwhile guess, let alone give you a reading about it.

Once a reading has been given it is neither possible nor permitted for you to reword the questions and then for me to give you another entirely new reading based upon them before approximately the next 30 days have passed. This is why I would suggest to you or anybody else requesting readings to only either ask one clearly worded question about only one life area per reading, or to alternately throw it open to a general reading where the reader's own inner guidance gets to decide entirely what it is felt is most important or urgent for that person to know at that particular time.

Think very carefully about what you are asking before you begin to type your request, as you only get once chance per 30 days or so in order to get it right for your own best interests in getting an effective reading.

You cannot have a general reading as well as a specific question answered at the same time. Both the quality and usefulness of the insights offered to us through a single reading are often in direct proportion to the quality of and how clear the questions were expressed in your request. Bad or unclear input can only reasonably be expected to give bad or unclear output from any specific reading.

Sincerely hoping that you still regard me as your friend after me giving you this very honest reading, and someone who is only telling you what he feels that you most need to hear for the greatest good of your own future happiness in love and success at work.

No offence to you as my friend, was ever intended.

Love, Light and Peace,

eye_of_tiger

I apologize I made a lot of confusion to your readings per my questions, thereby a wrong judgement regarding my whole being as a person was evaluated.  I understand I cannot reconstruct my previous questions or statement after 30 days. However, just to clarify all of those relationships are merely friendly relationships I would say on the courtship status.  Except for the manager and my supervisor I mentioned, which I had no idea that they had a relationship because he really had fallen for me and would really do anything to be at my back all the time knowing there other guys eying on me and I found out he is half my age. I tried to avoid him but he won't give up until the manager saw us 2x seated together. I can't do anything because he is my superior and manager I mentioned is his boss.  Anyway, after the manager transferred me to another account, he resigned after a week.  So, the manager felt so bad from then 8 months, ago.  Now she is trying to break even with me.

With regards to EC.  This guy is what i would say a very conservative person.  Two years ago, we were in the same company and he is my Manager.  So still have my supervisor as my immediate superior, but due to his likings for me he use to be always near me.  But it seems the odds were always against us.  Chances always have obstacles so things really won't work for both of us.  Also within courtship relationship.  I was not prepared to have a relationship during that time as my girls are still young and I was afraid I may not be able to handle the situation.  He got ill so seriously maybe thinking about how to work things with me simultaneously with alcohol until he was fed up with the situation.  And I decided to resign from my job because I really can't handle myself as well as he is in a higher position thinking I can't be better off with someone like him and he can't be proud of me then.

Just to clarify, I never engaged myself in a serious relationship to the extent of what you mentioned.  I have not been into bed with someone else since year 2000, the time my marriage broke up, and I could proudly say that to anyone else as I am a God fearing person and we are living as a family oriented one.  My children are all girls and I feel so a shame to have about the matter even though they are the one saying, I need to have someone else.

Well, I really appreciate your time spent on my readings.  Don't worry FRIEND, I will always be here to ask your assistance every now and then.

Thank you so much! More Power!

Hulahoo

Dear Hulahoo,

I am greatly relieved that you have understood the positive intention of my message to help you get a more effective reading in future through more carefully considering exactly what you would like to know from your reading, and that I had not unintentionally offended you when I questioned the nature and depth of the poorly defined relationships existing between yourself, your supervisor and your manager.

There was never any suggestion by yours truly that you had done something improper or something to be ashamed of.

Who a consenting adult chooses to sleep with is none of my beeswax or business.

I am not nor do I have the moral right or authority to be any other person's judge, jury and executioner.

As can be clearly seen from the above the word relationship can have one of several different shades of meaning (anything from a passing acquaintance through a friend and at the other extreme being deeply and some would say almost obsessed with that person to want to spend the rest of your life with him).

Actually I only just realised that this important point is already covered by the forum guidelines.......

***Please Read BEFORE Requesting Your Psychic Reading...***

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6. When asking questions, please word your question carefully, think about the content and take responsibility for the question.

Blessed be,

EoT