Dear Hulahoo,

I am greatly relieved that you have understood the positive intention of my message to help you get a more effective reading in future through more carefully considering exactly what you would like to know from your reading, and that I had not unintentionally offended you when I questioned the nature and depth of the poorly defined relationships existing between yourself, your supervisor and your manager.

There was never any suggestion by yours truly that you had done something improper or something to be ashamed of.

Who a consenting adult chooses to sleep with is none of my beeswax or business.

I am not nor do I have the moral right or authority to be any other person's judge, jury and executioner.

As can be clearly seen from the above the word relationship can have one of several different shades of meaning (anything from a passing acquaintance through a friend and at the other extreme being deeply and some would say almost obsessed with that person to want to spend the rest of your life with him).

Actually I only just realised that this important point is already covered by the forum guidelines.......

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Blessed be,

EoT  

Hello everyone! )

I would appreciate it very much if you could have readings regarding my current love, life and career.

Love, light and blessings. .  .

More Power!

Thanks,
Hulahoo

Truly excellent!

We thought that we had lost you for a moment, but I am now more than pleased to give you your reading as requested.

As readings focus on only one question or one life area at a time, first I asked the cards as to which of the three listed above of life in general, love and career is felt to be the most important or urgent area for you at the present moment.

The first card which I drew on your behalf which was The Lovers, leaves absolutely no doubt in my mind that we will be putting your current relationship under the microscope with the intention to make it a better and happier one. No matter how well our closest relationship appears to be going, there is always room for some improvement. Would you agree?

So please do not misinterpret this reading as necessarily meaning that your relationship is felt by my inner guidance to have currently reached a crisis point, and that is consequently seen to be in any imminent danger of it ending sooner rather than much later, if at all.

But as with most other human relationships things have happened or been said between you in the not so distant past which you may have come to now regret happening or saying, and it may seem to you on the surface that it is too late to undo any damage which have been done as a result.

The really good news I am getting with you through this particular card is that the point of no return for your love life is still a long way off in the future.

The only condition being placed upon this statement of the facts as they are being seen is that your prospective partner needs to want this relationship to be healed at least as much as you obviously do if this is going to be workable.

No matter what you do or do not do with the positive intention to improve your relationship, if your partner is not also able and willing to accept his fair share of the responsibility for any problems which you may be having as a couple, then I do not like your chances of turning this around completely by yourself.

On the other hand it is felt by your reader that if you are both able and willing to honestly communicate your feelings to each other and work co-operatively and with good feelings towards one another as a united team instead of as two separate individuals, the probability of the relationship being a reasonably happy and longer term one significantly increases out of all proportion to your efforts to make peace reign once more between you.

In other words only a small extra amount of effort and energy used by both of you in order to attempt to restore both reason and romance at the same time to your partnership could potentially lead to a huge improvement in your situation which would have been difficult to have imagined was possible only weeks before the present moment.  

Some extra motivation beyond what you currently have not to prematurely give up either on yourselves or on each other could roughly between now and early April of 2011 (six months further down the track)) become a catalyst to speed up your love chemical reaction?

The Lovers Tarot card always reminds me of the scene from the Bible of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, with the angel above blessing their union, which then leads me to feel that you were meant to be together, although it is not saying by any means that things are guaranteed to always run smoothly.

Actually from what I am reading there is always the distinct possibility of an explosive reaction happening between two people who in their own ways truly in love with each other, but who also at the same time have very different needs and expectations about what a relationship is able to realistically provide them with.

In terms of your different personalities and priorities in this life he and you are like chalk and cheese, or should I say like fireworks and a box of matches? As long as you are not together for too long at a time and get too close to him for his comfort, then everything is rosy and relatively peaceful thank you.

But if instead you spend too much time together and show him that you want to get closer to him and know more about what he is really feeling deep down about you and your relationship, the match and fuse come together and the fireworks will soon begin. And one initial small explosion can often unfortunately lead to a negative chain reaction of bad feelings and a mutual lack of trust.

There is it is felt without being able to read him directly via a third party reading a strong tendency by him to want to always take complete control of any situation, and to want to make all the important decisions in your relationship, with little or no input allowed on your part with regards to decisions which affect both of you well into the future.

So to a certain extent your relationship could have become a battle for who feels they are more in control at the time, instead of you taking turns in making the important decisions according to your past experience and unique qualities and relevant skills, as successful couples do.

This is a battle or war of opposing ideas and needs in which neither of you can be the winner, and ultimately if this continues like it has too much longer it is one in which you will both be losers, big time.

Instead of continuing to fight a battle or war that is only likely to end in misery for both of you, the time to make your peace and to turn over a large proportion of the control of your relationship over to a higher and much wiser power than either of you is now close at hand.

Now I do not wish to over exaggerate the potential seriousness of the pressures which I see as building up in your relationship without any safety valve to bring down the pressure to safer and lower levels, but at the same time I feel that it would be most unwise for you to not take notice of the early warning signs and take what reasonable, practical steps are necessary to defuse the firecracker. And it would similarly be negligent and irresponsible of me as your reader and friend not to pass these cautionary messages on to you as accurately and completely as possible.

Learn to take turns in being in control and making the decisions which could affect both of you. Any problems which he has with fully opening up his heart to you are probably more likely to be related to some bad experiences in his past, when compared to anything you have or have not done since you first met.

If you are both able and willing to follow this prescription for the healing of your relationship to the very best of your abilities as a united team, then I see that you have every valid reason to hope for and expect a much improved outcome as a direct result of the time and effort you make in communicating more honestly and effectively.

Hoping that this reading will help to pour calming oil on troubled waters, and that in combination with help and support you obtain from other non intuitive and/or professional sources, it will encourage you to keep going in spite of any obstacles which are placed in the path of your relationship (no matter what size they are).

Be sure that you at least get some of your equally important needs satisfied as well as working to meet his needs within your relationship, which are BTW very different from your own. What does he make of your spiritual beliefs, for if he does not respect your right to have these beliefs, then while your task is not impossible, it could be a long drawn out and weary battle, with no holds barred and no prisoners being taken.

I sincerely hope that things will eventually work out between you, in both your best interests and for the purposes of your maximum happiness in love.

Love, Light and Peace to you both,

eye_of_tiger  

Hello dear Friend,

Thanks for the immediate response. And everything is very well noted and appreciated regarded as would be to the best for my happiness and success of the relationship for our future life.  For all of these, I am very much pleased to all your readings and I would take it really as my guide to regain a better relationship this time.

Absolutely, there is always room for some improvement.

Thank you so much.

Love< Light < and Blessings. . . .

Hulahoo )

Hulahoo,  

It is always my pleasure to be of positive service, and as an added bonus either make a new friend or alternatively strengthen an existing bond of friendship through my readings.

Thanking you for your heartfelt vote of confidence in yours truly, and your ongoing support for the spiritual work which I do on these MB forums (which has quickly turned into a labour of love).

Onwards and Upwards!

EoT