Hello,

With 2009 drwaing to and end I have yet to meet anyone special.I would like to know if I am going to be meeting someone special before the end of 2009?

Jessica

03/19/82 Tennessee

Dear Jessica,

Although in theory anything is possible including you meeting this special man before the end of this year which is as you say rapidly drawing to a close, both logic and my own instincts tell me that the probability of this happening to you between now and then is well below that expected by chance (50 - 50).

Could I please remind you that any reading you receive on these forums concerning this question is though to refer to a period of approximately the next six months only?

Restricting your question to the next 52 days between now and the end of 2009 will effectively make any reading given by me of your likely chance of meeting him by then worse than useless.

What happens if I told you during a reading (and I am only using this as an example to help me explain this to you) that I felt that you will meet this special man exactly on March 1st 2010, but you found someone who your own instincts are telling you could possibly be the one for you when celebrating New Year's Eve?

Are you going to then trust my instincts above yours because you feel they are somehow much more reliable than your own simply as I offer free psychic readings over the Web, and you do not?

Would you necessarily automatically take more notice of what I tell you as an accurate indicator of whether he is the man of your dreams, when compared to your own "gut" or heart feelings?

Would you tell your New Year's friend to get lost solely on the basis of what a "psychic" told you he felt was true?

If you would still like a reading merely for entertainment purposes only or out of curiosity as to what a reading might tell you, then I would be pleased to do this within those conditions.

But if you are going to on the other hand take what I will say too seriously to heart and substitute your impressions about whether he is right for you with mine because you believe I have some special psychic power which you are lacking in, then with due respect would I ask you to please think carefully about the possible negative consequences this could have on your self confidence to make your own decisions, before responding to this message.

In the end, the decision as to whether to proceed with this questions as it stands is entirely your own, but in my experience readings requested in order to learn something healing and positive often produce diamonds of wisdom and truth, while readings requested out of curiosity or purely for amusement purposes tend to yield lumps of almost worthless coal, in the forms of fantasy and wishful thinking.

Over to you for your decision as to whether you still wish to proceed with your question as it presently stands in entertainment mode only, or whether you would prefer to ask something with more depth and possibly be spiritually and emotionally richer as a direct result.

Dig more deeply for the diamonds, or just be content with the surface lumps of coal?

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eye_of_tiger  

hi,

I was just hoping that I would find Mr.Right this year

jessica

Jessica,  

And I really hope that you do find him.

The desire to find someone special in our lives who loves and respects us for being the person we already are is probably one of our greatest and most urgent spiritual needs.

It is not you hoping to find Mr Right this year which is at issue here, but rather the way in which you have asked your question which is making it unnecessarily difficult for anyone to take you seriously and to help you.

Instead of asking any of us to predict either way whether you will meet him within the next 50 plus days (which is going to be no more accurate in my opinion than flipping a coin and choosing either heads you will meet him or tails you will not) I would suggest that you should have asked instead as to how you could through your own actions significantly increase the chances that this will happen sooner rather than much later.

This would effectively reduce the role of good luck or a random turn of the Wheel of Fortune in bringing you together, and empower you instead to take a greater degree of control over your own love life.

Instead of waiting indefinitely for love to come uninvited to your front door, first get clearer in your own mind as to which positive qualities you are looking for in your man as well as those you would not be willing to accept under any circumstances, then regularly get out of your house and visit the types of places where you would most expect to find your "ideal" man as best described by your personal preferences.

Move from a passive to an active phase in determining what your future love life will be like?

Find a man who is of a similar age group to your own and one with whom you share some common interest, which could potentially establish a good foundation for a loving and lasting relationship with that person in the future.

Or would you rather I simply flipped a coin or turned over some Tarot cards to determine what your love life will be, assuming that you nothing changes in the meantime including within yourself (which will never be the case)?

I sincerely hope not!

Do you really wish to give away your power to determine and have considerable control over your future love life to a psychic? I feel that you deserve much better than this (hey I am on your side) and that there are more than enough paying sites which will be quite happy to separate you from your hard earned money in order to keep the false belief alive and well that psychics always know better than ourselves when it comes to matters of our own hearts.

Take back control over your own personal future and get out there and find him, instead of continuing to wait for him to come knocking at the front door of your heart, without any further effort on your part to help yourself.

That brings us to the end of the flow of insights which came through me in your own best interests during this reading. I sincerely hope that you will find its contents to be both relevant and useful to you in taking back control over your love life.

God Bless,

EoT