Firstly I would like to wish you a very happy birthday for November 4th, which has now unfortunately passed according to South Australian time.



I realize all too well that psychic readers are often regarded by the general public as being the same as fortune tellers when it comes to matters of the heart, but in order for me to make any worthwhile predictions about your love life you first need to be in a relatively stable long term relationship at the time of your request.

Unless you are at the same time actively doing something to get clearer in your own mind what positive qualities you are looking for in the man of your dreams, plus are getting out of your home on a regular basis to visit the places where you would most expect to meet the type of man best described by your list with common interests to your own, I can confidently predict that your chances of you meeting the right person for you and falling head over heels in love with him in the period of the next six months currently ranges between most unlikely and zero.

To better help you to find the deep and lasting love you so deserve, you must also do whatever is within your power to help yourself as a basic requirement for you making any forward progress with this quest.

If on the other hand you passively wait indefinitely for love to come uninvited to and knock on your front door, then it is felt to be very likely that you will spend a large proportion of your remaining years alone in your own company.

Your featured theme card for this month's effort happens to be the Four of Pentacles.

The 4 of any of the Tarot suits usually suggests that you are presently in a holding pattern. Interpreted in a positive manner this would mean that you are temporarily resting from seeking a relationship and allowing your heart to more fully heal from its past wounds.

Up to a point, this is a very good thing.  

But there is correspondingly a more negative and less friendly interpretation for any of the fours, by it meaning that you are so stubbornly hanging on to your old outworn and often totally unrealistic beliefs about men that you are continually holding yourself back and being your own worst enemy when it comes to fulfilling your most cherished dreams of finding a suitable love partner. In other words, you may feel as a direct result of your lack of willingness to change yourself for the better, to be more permanently STUCK.

This is definitely not such a good thing!  

Also with this four belonging to the Pentacles (or Coins) suit and therefore believed to refer to either money itself, ways of conserving what money you already have and/or discovering other means of earning yourself an honest living it appears that you will need to get some of your present financial difficulties relatively under your control, if forming and maintaining your new relationship is going to be a viable and affordable proposition in the near to medium term future.

Relationships cost money?

Unless you can move some way towards resolving some of your current cash flow deficiencies and shortfalls, there will sadly be little energy left over in reserve for you to devote to the man who effectively stole your heart the very minute he looked into your eyes, and you instantly knew deep down within yourself that this was meant to be.

Many blessings from me, are now winging their way in your direction,

eye_of_tiger (male)

Hi thanks eye of the tiger!
I have a boyfriend, he is an Aquarius, he is absolutely amazing person.   I really love him.   Just that we have different paths in life, for example he never wants marriage, we are both continuing our education for advanced degrees but the schools we want to go to are in different continents !!!!    Not sure how will we marry or live together .   But he is so rational and I am more emotional, so I don't think I could take the separation, as of now we are separted because he is doing an internship in another state, we will see each other soon though!

4 of Pentacles as you drescibed does describe my situation.    I make little money and I am saving slowly for school again!   I am saving up money so I do feel 'stuck' and I cannot leave where I am now because of my money situation!    So presently the money I am making its all going towards my savings...whatever is left over from rent of course.   So far I am pleased with the results I am making but its tough when you do not make a lot of money.  Thank goodness I have my parents who will help me fund my school when I leave!

I guess I would like to know what is in store for my love life and I am not the one to just stay at home and day dream of love LOL.     I have no problem of asking a man out and get rejected.
I mainly would like to know about love not money/job, I am confident on those things .

You are very welcome for the reading which is now complete, and was just as much about love as it was about your money difficulties. Much of what I said before still applies, although you know who this man is. There is only so much that you can do personally to heal the relationship, as without his co-operation and willingness to work towards resolving your problems in a mature and balanced manner, I confess that I do not like your chances.  

I am not heavily into making baseless predictions through my readings as to what the future for you as a couple is most likely to be, as to a large extent the both of you are on a day to day basis in the process of creating your shared future through a series of conscious decisions which you make NOW.

I am however much more interested in looking intuitively into your personality with the positive intent to better prepare you for whatever that future eventually turns out to be.

I am also unable to directly read his thoughts and intentions towards you as this would require me to give you a third party reading which is not permitted on this site, as it is seen as an invasion of his privacy without either his knowledge or written permission.

Because I have passed on to you as accurately and completely as possible what insights came through me on your behalf during this reading, I feel that I can do no more in this regard to help you decide whether or not you feel that he is worth pursuing, and when enough is enough.

Beyond doing this to the very best of my abilities, my hands are effectively tied behind my back.

Could I please remind you that readings of the type given on this forum are believed to refer to a period of the next six months after your request, meaning that if you asked me the same question before approximately the beginning of May next year, I would simply refer you back to what I have already said here, and politely ask you to choose another entirely different question instead?

You will once again become eligible to request another reading on either this or any of the other reading forums, on or any time after December 4th (your time)

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I really do hope that things work out well for the both of you.

EoT

oh thanks again.
i understand now.    and i appreciate your time.      the reading was indeed very helpful.