Hello,
my name is carter and dob is 03/03/1951

I would like a reading. A reading on my marriage is allowed ?

thanks in advance

Hi Carter,  

Unless you are asking me to directly read your partner's thoughts or intentions without their knowledge and permission which would require me to give you a third party reading which is not permitted on this site according to the forum guidelines, a reading about your marriage is quite OK.

However I would suggest that if you want a marriage reading as quickly as possible that you should perhaps narrow down your question beforehand to something less vague, and to focus your request instead on the single particular aspect of your marriage which is presently causing you the most concern.

Also could I please respectfully ask you to first introduce yourself and to make another couple of non reading postings before returning to this forum, and to then let me know that you are ready for your marriage reading under this same thread?



You can always view the forum rules in their entirety at the following web address.....

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Hoping to see you back here again soon (after your eligibility to request a reading has been established) with a more specific question about the part of your marriage which is most troubling you at this time.

Yours faithfully,

eye_of_tiger (male)

Thank you for answering my question and I would like to apologize for not answering promptly. Actually I was just asking if I was allowed to ask about my marriage, not directly requesting a reading about it Sorry for the misunderstanding .
Well, as you answered my doubt I would like to request a reading. It can be a general reading then or what you feel like sharing or see for me .

thanks you so much

Not a problem, and sorry as well for misunderstanding your original question,

It is still possible for you to have a reading done concerning your marriage, as long as I am not being asked to directly read your wife's thoughts and intentions, without either her permission or knowledge. Such a reading is definitely out of the question as it is defined as being third party.

As you appear to be concerned enough to want to seek guidance in this particular area of your life, I feel that a general reading where it is left entirely up to the reader to decide what the reading should be about would be counter-productive.

Your focus or featured card for this marriage reading is (or was) the King of Wands.

Kings in a spread can indicate motivation, a beginning or start of something. But this does not necessarily mean that what you had between you in your marriage up until now is at an end, and that you will therefore need to marry someone else instead in order to sort out your differences.

Essentially the King of Wands is interpreted to mean that you are in the process of taking greater control over your current relationship situation, but as any successful reigning monarch knows unless he also the co-operation and support of his loyal subjects then any time and effort he places into improving things by himself is unlikely to be successful.

In a similar manner in your manner within your marriage I feel that you do need to take more charge of the situation and make some of the big and probably unpopular decisions to help heal your differences of opinion with you wife, but at the same time ensure that you do this tactfully and always with sensitivity to her feelings. In other words you may need to be more assertive of your right to make up your mind about matters which could potentially have far reaching long term consequences for the future of your partnership. But as well you need to express your opinions in a way that does not make your wife feel like she is under personal attack, or that it does not matter to you what she thinks or does not think is the best thing to do as you plan to do it in spite of her wishes.

I noticed that you are like myself in your late 50s, and while this may seem highly unlikely at this stage of your life, the King of Wands is frequently associated with you starting a new family business or undergoing a significant change in your career direction. Something which will allow you to earn a reasonably comfortable living (it may involve a promotion and consequent pay rise, or mean that you are self employed), but which will allow you to spend many more quality hours with your wife as well. Although as I said before I cannot read her directly, I can still read her indirectly though her marriage to you. And in this way I am picking up that things between you have been strained to say the least, during the previous few months possibly well back into last year.

Nothing that is going to be seen as a basis for a separation and subsequent divorce, but more than the average expected amount of conflicts and disagreements mainly concerning how your shared cash reserves and interest from any joint investments could be most effectively spent. But if you can somehow have greater success and an increased income business wise (a family business), there will be as a result more money in the pot to be spread around.

However the possible downside of all this (you really did not fool yourself into believing for one moment that there would not be any downsides of your improved fortune, did you?) is that with more money coming in at the end of each week you may feel even more pressure to waste it on doing or buying things to get some satisfaction, instead of focussing on getting your priorities and relationship back on track.

While money itself is neutral, the pursuit of more and more money above the amount needed to be happy and pay your bills at the sacrifice of what or who should be occupying more of your attention is neither healthy in the long run, nor conducive to developing better feelings between you and your spouse.

Do so at your own peril.  

Love, Light and Healing to you, as well as to your marriage,

eye_of_tiger

Thank you for answering my request it was fast!
But I feel embarrassed cause I didn´say that I am a woman. So sorry about that, sometimes I forget that my name is not too common for a woman. I read and reread your answer and it makes a lot of sense. is there a chance that somehow you picked my husband instead of me in the reading ?