Carter,  

Again this is not a problem as the King of Wands can equally be applied to a woman, as it can be to a man. This a is a constant source of confusion if you have never studied the Tarot, or have never given a reading to someone else.

The same general rule of thumb applies to Pages and Knights, and any other card for that matter where the figure displayed on it's face can be identified as being that of a man.

This is presumably because both men and women possess a complex and variable mixture of both masculine and feminine qualities, but in women the feminine ones tend on average to outnumber or dominate the masculine ones.

You have already some of these masculine qualities in your overall personality make up, and the reading is saying that you may need to further develop another one of these (being more assertive, which is traditionally seen as a male strength).

Men on average tend to be more assertive of their rights, but they often spoil things by being too aggressive or looking for a fight.

As a woman you have I feel a much better chance of both being more assertive, but also remaining more sensitive to your husband's needs than the average man is of his wife's.

This reading therefore stands almost exactly as it has already been given.

In place of the word "her" please substitute "his", and for "wife" please substitute "husband".

It is your reading, and not your husband's.

This means that although you and your husband may have certain qualities in common, at least 99.9% of what I have written applies to you and not him.

BTW you are more than welcome for the reading itself.

God bless,

EoT