1. Will I ever find a girlfriend?
2. Will I ever be homeless?
3. What do you sense about my job / work environment?
4. What do you sense about my health?

Thanks

Born April 8, 1981
Name Sam
Aries

Questions have always been on my mind, I just wanted to know about some answers if possible. Thanks

Hi Sam,

I will try to answer each question I am allowed to, one at a time.

Because we are not allowed to make predictions about or diagnose health and medical issues through our readings which should only be discussed with a qualified doctor, I will unfortunately need to forgo your final question 4, mainly for legal reasons.



This very much depends on how deeply you have thought about the qualities you are looking for in your future partner, and whether you are actively visiting the places outside your home where you would most expect to meet the type of woman best described by your list, While you are at it, I would recommend that you should also write down a second list of all the more negative qualities you could not accept in the person with whom you would be living on a day to day basis. For example, if the smell of cigarette smoke makes you violently ill as it does me, then if she is a heavy smoker it might be to your advantage to look elsewhere for her than in a smoking compartment. I am unable to offer you a relationship reading about a relationship which does not yet exist. Any predictions I make in either direction (YES you will eventually find a girlfriend or alternately NO I do not ever see a girlfriend for you according to your Tarot cards) could be instantly made worthless by whatever you consciously do or do not do, between now and then. They would be even less than wild and totally unsubstantiated guesses?



My question to you in return would be with regards to why you might suspect or have reasonable grounds to fear that you could potentially become homeless at some stage in your life. While there is always I suppose some chance that any of us could become homeless at any time, either through our own actions or through no observable fault of our own, you must admit that the probability is extremely low for a good proportion of the population. If it is worrying you so much and causing you to needlessly lose sleep, do whatever you feel that you possibly can within reason, to make it even less likely than it was before you started doing something in order to help yourself, that you will at some time in your life find yourself living both out in the street and in the bad weather. You may discover all too late that by continuing to dwell upon this extremely unlikely event you could be attracting without knowing it the very factors into your life which could eventually significantly increase your chances of becoming a homeless person, whereas if you had done something more positive and constructive with your thinking in its place it might never have happened at all.

This is what is called you creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Whatever you focus most regularly on in this life (either positive or negative) frequently tends on average to eventually become your most probable personal future. Focus instead on getting a good well paying job and developing your sense of self confidence and self respect using positive affirmations and doing things which make you feel better about being you. Focus more upon the positive and joyful things in life, without denying at the same time that the darker side does not exist, and you will probably find that your fear of becoming homeless will be shown up for what it is - a total and unnecessary waste of your valuable time and energies, which could be much better directed towards you creating a much brighter and more prosperous future, through the use of your own personal power to tip the scales of seemingly random good luck and fortune increasingly in your favour. Often what we most fear either never comes to pass at all, is nowhere near as bad as we previously imagined it would be, or we are found to be more than capable of dealing with it in a mature and emotionally balanced manner, or even worse things than that. Don't give it another though! Starve your fear or perceived possibility of you becoming homeless, out of existence?



Are you either currently working or unemployed?

8+4+1+9+8+1=31  3+1=4

If you are currently working then by using your full DOB of April 8, 1981 plus numerology, your calculated life path number would be FOUR.

You would be an asset to any employer, as you are trustworthy, practical and down to Earth. What people see with you, is exactly what they get? You are not born primarily to be a leader, but then you are also not meant to be someone who blindly obeys and follows orders without using your own excellent powers of judgment as to whether this would be in the best interests of the group. Your main lesson this time around is to learn to be loyal and respectful to those people whom you work with and under, without at the same time becoming a mindless robot or a human doormat which other people will chose to wipe their feet upon. In other words you need to find the best balance for you between these two extremes.

You are particularly strong willed and are determined to succeed at any cost or under even the most adverse circumstances, although your critics of whom there will never be a shortage might misinterpret this will to succeed as being sheer stubbornness on your part. You are rather set in your ways of thinking and doing a particular task. You may find it difficult to think outside the box, and tend more often than not to go with what is the more conventional. It might take you a longer time than most to make up your mind, but once the decision has been made you are virtually unstoppable in carrying it out as soon as you possibly can.

Your intense sense of purpose and your ability to get the job done and by the appointed deadline, borders upon obsession and possibly even a large dose of perfectionism. You are an excellent organizer and planner because of your natural ability to view things in a very common sensible and practical manner. You have a great sense of how to get a job done well, and nearly always just in the nick of time. You would make a particularly dependable business partner, but may lack the required self discipline to be self employed or work much of the day from your home over the internet. There are simply too many potential distractions there, for you to be able to work effectively.

The number 4 has always been heavily associated with the element of earth from which it gains it strength and solid sense of reality. You are one of the most dependable people that any person could hope to meet or know. If patience and determination can ever win by themselves, you are almost assured because you possess both in large quantities to achieve great success in your working life as a whole life, and always under your own terms.

If you are instead unemployed or still studying, then my considered advice based on this reading would be to find a work environment or job in which your particular almost unique positive qualities would be to your and the company's or business's greatest benefit, both financially and otherwise. A work place where some of your more undeveloped talents and skills could be applied to their greatest effect, and brought more out of you for the common good of all.

Hoping this reading helps you answer your first three questions to your satisfaction,

Take good care of yourself my friend,

eye_of_tiger

Wow

I do have a job, you are right! That's so cool !! I must take very seriously all your comments because of the sheer accuracy of your job reading, I am still stunned a little.

Sam,

Hey, it was my pleasure to be of service to my friend!

I am really feeling over the moon that you believe that the reading will be so helpful to you, but my intention was neither to stun nor overwhelm you into a state of shocked silence.

Will you be feeling up to getting another reading in just under another month's time from now?

If you do happen at a later date to think of any more questions arising out of this recently completed reading, please post them under this same forum thread and I will do my best to address each question in turn in the detail that it deserves.

Many thanks for allowing me to read for you,

EoT  

I have only 1 real question then, I made those above more or less generic because I feel my readings have been more accurate that way, if I go into long diatrabs about things they may cloud readings IMO.

I want to know how I can overcome these empty relationships I find myself in with women who have no real interest in me but merely use me as their confidant and someone to vent too. I realize you'll probably say that only happens if I allow it too but I just need an idea what you think. After-all this has happened to me alot and I'm so very tired of it I'm ready to just give up on that entire aspect of life. I don't need anything romantic I guess but it would've been fun.

Thanks