Hi, and yes i am aware this is my 2nd post and I know this action is going to come across as desperate....but i'm not gonna sugar coat it and pretend otherwise, because right now i am very desperate about whats going on, i mean it is simply interfering with my life, i think about it all the time and i just wanna make an important decision to move on with life and be at peace.

Well, recently, about last week I woke up one morning and suddenly I felt a very intense feeling for a girl, i know it was love because i didn't choose to be in love and i didn't feel as strongly for her before....it just happened without any apparent cause i could think of. This has been going on for about two weeks, I constantly think about her and everything.
Also keep in mind, I've only met up with this girl a few times in person and talked to her on the phone about twice.
I believe it is a past-life connection.

My question is:
Why do I feel like this for the girl? ( if it is a past-life thing, please give details like what sort of relationship it was, what sort of culture, occupation, living conditions.... it does not have to be a full in-depth reading, just minor details.)

Please I am in the utmost need of a psychic reading right now, all i want in my life is to get to get this question answered, it is driving me to the brink of insanity.   MANY, MANY THANKS!

Hi Silvio,

I am going to be equally honest and upfront with you about what I am feeling through your reading, but must sincerely apologise if it unintentionally comes across to you as being somewhat cold and unfeeling.

I sense that since you have already convinced yourself that your feelings for this girl stem from a shared past life experience, then nothing I could tell you to the contrary is going to make you change your mind. In other words as you have already accepted deep down in your subconscious mind where it really counts that because you met her before in one of your past lives, you are now in this one feeling a sense of connection that could only be explained to your satisfaction in terms of a past life relationship which you had with each other.



Because you are a healthy 19 year old male and at this stage your testosterone levels are virtually going through the roof. It is not so much however the girl who is causing you to get an extreme case of the hots (although males in general are highly visual creatures when it comes to feeling turned on by the opposite sex), but mainly what you are imagining and telling yourself about her and what she might be thinking about you as her future prospective partner. Our most important sex organ is our own mind?



Although I am now myself nearly 57 years of age I am still not old enough to have forgotten that feelings of love (or equally those of passion or lust) for another person are rarely if ever a conscious choice on our part. Often these intense feelings appear to come from nowhere, and may then soon rapidly overwhelm our mind's ability to think clearly and logically in the process. When love has us in it's tight grip, our brains effectively turn to mush? Once we have been smitten by Cupid's arrow and the "chemistry" is right, we cannot seem to think about anything else other than wanting her for our own.



There is nothing in your reading which indicates one way or the other as to whether or not these feelings of love you have for her stem from a past life experience. To be able to provide even some of the details you are looking for would necessarily require a full in depth Past Life reading.

Readings of this type are not given by anyone on this site to the best of my knowledge, and if they were I honestly would caution you not to ask for one. It is my feeling that delving into past lives as to explaining what is happening in this one should only be done as a last resort, if all the possible reasons from this one have first been eliminated. I would also suggest that much of what comes across in past life readings tends to be either fantasy or wishful thinking rather than it containing any elements of truth which are provable.

Past life readings are not therefore something which I believe should be done simply out of curiosity or their contents taken too lightly, as they may potentially in your search for enlightenment dig up things from your pasts (if it actually works as some definitely do) that you would much rather remain buried. Past life readings are generally only advisable when everything else has been first explored and the person is plagued by severe and unexplainable by normal means symptoms or behaviours which prevent him from functioning reasonably well in his current lifetime.

Some of the most valuable past life therapy is given through the use of hypnosis by a qualified professional who has not only been properly trained to reliably and safely place the person in a hypnotic trance state of adequate depth, but can also deal with the sometimes severe emotional responses and traumatic experiences which are observed with many of their patients while they are hypnotised. My advice would be never to attempt anything like this over the internet, as the potential dangers involved would surely not be worth it.

In the hands of an amateur past life regressions are positively dangerous, and could easily leave you much worse than you already are symptom wise, but still no closer to getting an answer to your questions. Other than through the use of past life hypnotic regressions in the hands of a qualified and fully trained professional I would advise you to stay clear of much of what is passed off as being a past life reading, especially that given over the internet.

It must be obvious to you now from what I have said above that I have very little confidence in the value of past life readings given by anyone other than a qualified professional psychologist, hypnotist or psychic counsellor who is properly trained in inducing the required hypnotic state reliably and safely, ONLY WHILE OFFLINE.

So in summary while I am unable for the reasons given to tell you with any degree of certainty whether or not you once knew and loved each other before in a shared past life experience, I feel that this reading which was never intended to be a past life one, does at least provide you with not only a better understanding of the nature and mystery of this thing called love, but also goes some way towards explaining the most likely reasons why you feels such an intense love for her apparently out of the blue, with very little if any warning that this was going to happen to you.

Relax and be yourself, and enjoy the experience without necessarily having to dig up the past to be able to explain the present. These first few months of intensely romantic feelings must soon eventually pass to be replaced by a much more mature and longer lasting form of deep affection (or we would all suffer from permanent overload and total emotional burnout if this kept going for too long at a time).

Make the most of what you are able to of this unfortunately temporary and all too short "honeymoon" period of your relationship, and do not spoil it for you both by continuing to over analyse everything in the light of your beliefs about a possible shared past life. Enjoy everything which you are able to about the present moment within your relationship, while it still lasts?

Learn to feel as much as you think?

Many blessings to you both,

eye_of_tiger (male)

Thank you for the direct and honest answer eye of the tiger.....and not at all, it didn't come across as cold or anything as such, I appreciate you helping and your viewpoint on the matter.

Well, you see, I wasn't 100% truthful, I did leave some things out. I guess the real reason for this post wasn't out of curiosity, but more of a confirmation.
I have already had a reading about this not too long ago, from a qualified(3000 customers, with about 95% of 5/5 feedback) and paid psychic, so i assumed she had to be a professional and to my surprise, she nailed the things about me and her( and it wasn't general either, where you could practically say it to anyone, where it applied to everyone, thing is she said the feeling I had was a past-life connection, while I do admit, I did have an open-mind about it for a while, but then became skeptical about this particular belief. I did not just wake up one morning and say "yep, it was a past-life connection", it was just very strange, you see, i know love can come out of the blue and i am aware of the testosterone that comes with youth. "Love" as I define it, shouldn't be where you feel guilt about it, especially if you're not cheating or anything like that, I have felt love before and I have never felt "guilty" about it,ever.....until now, it just doesn't feel right, though it is natural, it is very difficult to explain.
While I do have an open-mind, it doesn't mean I buy into everything superstitious and seen as "illogical" by most, I do admit, however that I have always wanted to get a past lives reading, but now that you've warned me, I might change my mind, cos you are right, most things are better left in the past.
Well, it was after I got this psychic reading, that I had another chat with a different psychic to dwelve into this "past-life connection" as an explanation for why my love was very pure and natural, yet it didn't feel "right" simultaneously, so what did he say?I am presuming he picked up on my problem and decided to help me out of his own free will, i did not ask for it,I didn't have to pay and I could ask him what it had been that had been bothering me.Now, unless he was super- compassionate, I believe he thought it was sort of  "duty" (or whatever ya wanna call it) to tell me about it to clear my mind.
So he told me, the place, the culture, living conditions and the type of relationship between me and her in the past(very minor details. when i was at the age of 14 in that past life)......and while it wasn't what i wanted to hear, the damage had already been done.There were some weird coincidences linking what he said about the past to the now......I am still skeptical though, I can't accept it, I need some confirmation, so I could make an ethical and moral decision regarding this situation. Of course I thought if someone on this board had told me the exact same thing as he had said( or at least most of it), then that would prove his theory was right.
Why am I doing this? Well, I'm guessing everyone who has experienced a divorce or break-up with someone that they had trusted completely or felt intimate with for a long time, would say....well it frankly sucked, being hurt and also possessing guilt that it was your fault, all because it turned out to be the wrong relationship for you.
I don't want that and while I know I could most probably get over something in time, this girl probably couldn't because I do believe she hangs onto the past too much, so that eliminates the "be happy for the time being, while it lasts", I don't wanna hurt her....... so please, you say it requires a full- in depth reading , but can't you just leave out most of the things once you have done the reading, and pinpoint the conditions, the relationship between us, occupation, the  specific and minor details like that, exactly like what my last psychic did.
I am fully aware, that this could be dangerous, but it don't matter, as long as it doesn't hurt her, I will be able to get over it in the end. So right now, that is all I ask of the culture, time , type of relationship. occupation etc. of the past life that includes both me and her.
I want to make the right choice, that's all, do what's best for both of us and am at a dilemma right now and this is where the psychic guidance is needed.
Thank you, please just do what you must, even though i ain't gonna like hearing it, as long as it allows me to make a choice, I'm all for it.

Silvio,

While you have a perfect right to choose the paid services of a professional psychic in preference to requesting a free reading on this forum, I believe that having as many as you obviously have in a relatively short period of time has only further confused you as to what the main intended purpose of a reading should be in the first place.

Rather than using your multiple readings in order to gain further insights into your relationship with this girl, I feel that with due respect you are using them instead to validate the sheer intensity of your feelings towards her, and to make your decisions on your behalf.

What you are doing by going to one psychic after another is what we frequently refer to as shopping for a reading by continuing to sample one reading after another until you finally get one which tells you exactly what you are hoping to hear - that you not only have had a past life relationship with this particular girl but that it also means you were necessarily meant to have another one with her in your current lifetime precisely because of the strong bond of love you forged with her in the past.

Now I do not feel able to comment one way or the other as to the quality and accuracy of the readings you have already received, but all I can say is that simply because a part of your reading may prove to be accurate with regards to your personal circumstances it does not automatically follow that everything in that reading is also true. So it does seem to me that you are selectively only picking out the parts of each of your readings which support this past life theory of yours, and are conveniently at the same time discarding any evidence within each of them to the contrary.

I am quite happy to offer you a relationship reading, but I want you to realize that I am not attempting to gain any information about possible past life experiences that you may have shared with her. Nor am I therefore trying to explain what is or is not happening now in terms of or related to what may or may not have happened in a past life.

As long as you understand that I am more interested in what is happening to you now with reference to helping the both of you to enjoy a much more loving and enduring relationship than you might have had otherwise instead of continuing to dredge up the past with the intention to explain the present to your intellectual satisfaction, then I am all for it.

Such a reading will not unfortunately for you be expected to contain all the finer details of your relationship you are evidently looking for, but I make no apology for this as such a reading as given below was never designed to do this.

............................Your relationship reading begins here.........................


When I asked my inner guidance through the Tarot cards as to what it is felt is most important for you to know at this specific stage of your relationship which could potentially make it go more smoothly, I get a strong impression that both of you are so similar to each other in your personal styles of interacting with the world and other people in it close to you, that you are virtually like two peas in the same pod.

Or to be more exact it is as though you are like mirror images of one another, and are so much on your respective partner's wavelength that you know already exactly what he or she is going to do or say, long before he or she actually says or does it.

I am not saying that with you being so alike in so many different respects to one another that this relationship could not possibly work reasonably well, but I do feel that it would be very difficult ranging to impossible for you to keep any secrets from one another for very long at a time.

I also sense that when it came to making important decisions that could possibly have significant life changing consequences for not only yourselves but also for your loved ones that there would be likely to be a disagreement about who could take credit for making such a wise decision.

I sense that although you appear to be so compatible with each other in theory that it is, in practice it is often going to be a battle between two very powerful and stubborn wills as to just who is going to take the most control of the situation, which could lead to both minor lover's tiffs or in some circumstances one or more major bust ups.

Many people hold on to the romantic idea that only if there are no minor or major conflicts or disagreements within it, was it ever meant to be. At the first sign that there is any conflict of opinion about what is the best possible course of action for them as a couple to take, this is seen by such people as a sign that they were never intended to be together at all.

But as with so many other cases to your own, your reading tells me (actually it shouts it to me both loudly and clearly in no uncertain words) that there are not only going to be many disagreements between you during the course of your relationship which could potentially extend over many years (that is your relationship, not the individual disagreements I hope), but also that you were placed together with the specific purpose to teach you to slowly but surely work through these differences in a mature and balanced manner as adults instead of always as teenagers often do.

There is I feel going to be a constant need for you both to make certain personal sacrifices and compromises if your relationship with each other is going to stand the test of time, but if your love for one another stays as strong as it is now then I see no valid obstacle being placed in your path in your life together, other than perhaps the possibility of your pride being hurt at times when it is obvious that one of you would make the better leader in this particular situation, for whatever reason.

Who will be the better person of you to take charge of making such decisions will see saw from one of you to the other, depending mainly as to in which life area it is and your relevant levels of past experience on which you can draw to help you to make your decision a well informed one.

For example (I am not reading this), one of you might in general be better at making a workable family budget, while their partner may be a more wise and reliable guide when it comes to making decisions involving such things as choosing a suitable home for them to live in. Or on some situations their roles may be temporarily reversed.

What is important to the future happiness and enduring nature of your relationship is that each of you feels that their ideas and opinions are at all times being respected and taken into consideration before a final decision is reached. If one of you always has the upper hand in deciding for example about how best to spend your money then (no matter how well qualified they believe they are to make it on the other person's behalf), this would be according to your reading a recipe for disaster.

Many blessings to you both,

eye_of_tiger   >>>>>>>>>>>  

Thanks a lot, eye of the tiger. Yea, I guess my decision now is to just forget about the readings, I had gotten and focus more on the present, it should all fall into place, in time.
As for the relationship tarot card reading, you nailed it about how we are similar in many ways, but I didn't expect us to argue a lot if we did commit in a more serious relationship. I guess I will have to wait and see, thanks for the heads up, if we do argue a lot, then I will just take it as a chance to not let my pride get in the way and to not be so stubborn (I know this is a flaw of mine). I feel a lot more confident and satisfied about the whole ordeal now.
Many thanks,
Sil.