HELLO,

i have had a alot of trouble finding the right guy to marry,I was told I had Mangala Dosha (Marriage Delay) but  not anymore.Will i get Married anytime in the near future?

3/19/82  Paris, Tennesseee

jessica

Dear Jessica,

With due respect, where did you ever get such a horribly self defeating belief as this one definitely is?

I don't know much if at all about Mangala Dosha, but if you really believed (or still believe) deep down in your subconscious mind where it counts that you were/are somehow cursed with a "marriage delay" condition then perhaps this is at the root of your problem. If you truly believe that something presumably of a black magic or supernatural nature is preventing you from ever finding the love you so deserve, and that you therefore have no control over your love life no matter what you do or do not do in order to increase your chances that you will meet him sooner rather than much later, then I feel that this could be a big part of the problem you are facing, now that the marriage delay condition is evidently no longer an obstacle to you having such a loving relationship with a man.

I am unable to offer you a relationship reading unless you are already in a relatively steady one, and unless you are now actively getting out there and mixing with men of a similar age and interests to your own, any predictions I could possibly make about with whom, when and where you may or may not be eventually married would be I feel less than worthless. Not only would such a prediction be based upon the assumption that you will do nothing in the meantime with the intention to help yourself in this manner (and I certainly hope that you will make a genuine effort to show yourself once and for all that the only power that Mangala Dosha ever had over you existed only in your own mind), but if I predicted that you would meet the man who might potentially become at a later date your future husband exactly 12 months from now, and you were given an opportunity to meet someone special next month, you could in theory decide to pull out of the date simply because I said that it could not happen yet (and therefore as a reader my instincts about whether a man is right for you romantically must always be trusted in preference to your own). Even if I could do this and I do not believe I have such an ability, honestly I would choose not to do this to you, as I would not be willing to accept the heavy responsibility of unknowingly spoiling any chances you had of meeting the man of your dreams, because of my well intended but sadly misdirected empty words.

I feel on the basis of this intuitive reading, that the next possible thing that you can do in addition to making a written list of the positive qualities you are looking for in a man, then visiting the places where you would most expect to meet that sort of person best described by your list (with perhaps a second list of all the negative qualities you are unwilling to put up with from him), I would not if I were you be waiting indefinitely for love to arrive knocking at your own front door. To a great extent you are the co-creator of your future love life and therefore your chances of getting a marriage proposal somewhere further down the line through whatever decisions you make in the present moment (your only true point of personal power to be able to influence your own future), and what you do to help yourself to increase your own feelings of self worth and self respect between now and then.

So in summary whether you enjoy a loving long term relationship with a man and whether you will ever be married to him or anyone else for that matter now largely depends on your efforts to make yourself feel lovable and good about yourself again, and if you have gone at least part of the way towards positively re-programming your mind to become your friend instead of your own worst enemy. There are no guarantees given that you will necessarily meet him within the first six months, and no definite time scale once you do about how long it will be before he pops the marriage question, but I can almost assure you with near 100% certainty that if you continue to sit in your home feeling sorry for yourself and accept that you are destined by cold, cruel fate or the supposedly permanent damage caused to your chances of finding romance by Mangala Dosha to a life of being alone and unloved, then sadly you may well do so.

Love, Light and Healing,

eye_of_tiger (male)