There is this Guy B. Him & I are sort of dating but things are moving fast in a way. I don't want to give too much detail because it seems a bit personal to do so. I basically just want to know a little about the future but mostly about the present & issues picked up now if it that makes sense. Thank you to the reader in advance.

Ashlie,

Sort of dating, but things are moving too fast in a way for whom?

With due respect it hardly requires me to give you a psychic reading to explain what is really going on here.

I am certain that if you asked him if he felt things are moving too fast, that he would say on the contrary that he feels things are moving along too slowly for him to be satisfied and comfortable with.

You are being pressured by him without your full consent into giving him what he wants (which is not love and commitment), with the threat that he will immediately withdraw what he is offering you thinly disguised as true love, but in reality being nothing of the sort.

I am unable to read him directly through a third party reading, but indirectly through your reading as to the effects his selfish male conquest at any cost behaviour is having on you, I am to say at the very least highly suspicious of his reasons for pushing you into something for which I feel you are not adequately prepared for the almost inevitable consequences.

I am probably sounding too much like your own parent here with my conservative attitudes towards sexuality and the generally accepted differences in what the average man wants and expects out of a relationship when compared to the typical woman (these are of course only generalizations, and not all men or all women for that matter want the same things from a relationship), but to be honest my warning bells with your happiness and future welfare in mind are currently in a state of extreme meltdown when it comes to what I feel is actually going on here just below the thin surface.

Unfortunately what you have just written makes too much sense to me as a father of a 26 year old daughter myself, as it seems to me a very familiar story through all human history, that when it comes down to such a situation that the girl always has much more to lose than the boy does.

If you are being as I suspect drawn into an intimate relationship with the possibly unspoken threat that if you do not comply with his wishes then he will be out of the door faster than you can imagine then please no matter how much you feel that you love  him, and you believe that he he loves you, think seriously about what you do stand to lose if he later unceremoniously dumps you because he has simply got over the novelty of having someone like yourself under his total control, who will obey his every wish because she has genuine feelings for him, but he does not have the same feelings for this loving woman in return.

My advice based on what I am reading here is to EITHER make him be entirely honest and completely upfront with you as to what he wants or expects of your relationship and you in the present and future, OR no matter how difficult this must seem to you, LEAVE HIM WHEN AND AS SOON AS YOU FEEL THAT IT IS SAFE TO DO SO, AND WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEWHERE ELSE SAFE AND SOMEONE WHO WILL BE FULLY SUPPORTIVE OF YOU TO GO TO.

Love can make us blind?

Please take good care of yourself in the meantime,

eye_of_tiger

PS: He would not by chance be several years older than you are, and/or presently in a steady relationship with someone else at the same time as he is with you?

Would he?  

Wonderful advice from EOT Ashlie...

Tread carefully and think of yourself before anyone else.

thanks for this

You are most welcome for the reading, and please call again in a month or so from this recent request, if you feel that this would be helpful to you by way of improving your future success and happiness.

May your concept of what or whom God is go with you ever more,

EoT