Hello,
after accidentally posting in the wrong section, i am re-posting.

Please my i have a reading please, i dont mind how anyone chooses to read it.

I would just like to request someone looks at my life and sees is i have friendship coming in, and love coming in and see what you can get on that.

Much Appreciated  

katy

Hello again Katy,  

As I have already implied in my response to your posting while it was still in the main psychic forum, I do not make predictions through my readings about either a friendship or relationship which has not even started yet.

My usual advice is that to make a new friend, first make an effort to be friendly towards anyone you feel you would like to be yours, and thoroughly explore any interests which you may share with each other to form the foundation on which to later build your friendship. To have a friend, first be a friend both to others as well as to yourself. If you do not feel deep down that you deserve to have a friend (you suffer from low self confidence like most of the human race does at some time in their life), you will then unintentionally be sending out unconscious signals which will effectively push any person who wanted to be your friend away from you. Accordingly, anything you can possible do in the meantime to give a positive boost to your self confidence and respect will make you a more likeable person who other people will want to meet.

When it comes to romance and you finding that special man in your life, create two written lists to help you get a clearer picture of the type of man you are looking for, and the type of man you should definitely want to avoid. Once you have your two lists with one containing all the positive qualities you are looking for in him, and the other listing anything you would simply not be willing to accept (if the mere smell of cigarette smoke makes you physically ill as it does me) then do not look for a heavy smoker as your potential life partner.

But now that has been done, next comes the critical step of getting out of your home and visiting the sorts of places where you would most expect to find a man of a similar age group to your own who is best described by your two lists. Do not expect that love is going to come knocking for you at your own front door (although it admittedly has happened to some very fortunate otherwise lonely people in the past). But don't depend on it happening to you. If you have an aversion to drunks, do not frequent hotel bars as a place to socialise.

Although I am unable and unwilling to offer you predictions concerning the likelihood of you making a new friend or finding your soul mate within the next six months, which is the period of time thought to be covered by a reading of the type given on this site, I would if it is alright with you like to give you one instead as to increasing your own chances of one or both of these happening sooner rather than much later.

I have already given you some friendly and I hope useful general advice as to how best do this, but now we are equally interested in learning about any intuitive messages or insights which might come through me on your behalf with a similar purpose (to help you make a new friend or to find your possible future partner. Both should then be used in combination with the other. Either the advice or insights by themselves are not going to be of much practical use to you. It is important that you should continue to keep this in mind, when you are tempted to become too dependent on psychic readings alone to guide you to your new friend or lover.

One of the most positive and uplifting cards in the entire Tarot pack is THE STAR, and this card just happens to be the main focus card for your reading for this month. This is in my opinion anything but a coincidence. I believe instead that it has an important message for you that could be applied either to a new friend or love interest. This is a card that unlike so many others looks more to the future than it does to the present moment, and come to think of it it could be what you were looking for all along, It does not offer you anything even approaching a 100% guarantee that your most cherished wishes about making a new friend or finding the man for you are only a matter of time, but it is at the very least a decidedly positive omen or sign that if  you are willing to do the necessary preparation beforehand and work on your low self confidence and lack of self respect, then your chances are I sense well above the average 50%.

The Star is often also interpreted to mean that you either have or are soon about to make a major positive emotional breakthrough, which will see you overcoming and ultimately defeating negative thought habits or ways of thinking about yourself that have been holding you back in the past from forming new relationships of any type. It is as though you have been carrying around with you for most of your 21 years a huge amount of negative emotional baggage (especially guilt) from your upbringing as well as any failed relationships you may have already had, and that the Star has come to first lighten your load, then remove it completely.

But by itself this particular card is not going to by itself change anything. It requires your full attention and co-operation if it is going to be any use to you in moving outside the protective wall you and many others like yourself have unconsciously built around your heart. Yes walls keep bad things out, but they also at the same time block out any positive incoming feelings that are trying to tell you that you are a likeable and loveable person (as I sense you are, beyond any shadow of a doubt). What was originally built with the best of intentions to protect you any further from being hurt again can if you do not watch out for the warning signs quickly turn into your prison cell instead, with no time out allowed for your good behaviour.

SLOWLY BUT SURELY BRING DOWN YOUR WALL BRICK BY BRICK, AND ALLOW THE LIGHT OF LOVE AND HOPE TO FLOW IN TOWARDS YOU, WHERE UP UNTIL ONLY FAIRLY RECENTLY THERE APPEARED TO BE NOTHING BUT DARKNESS AND A FEELING THAT YOU WOULD CONTINUE BE ALONE FOR THE REST OF YOUR REMAINING YEARS .

This then is the message or gift that this card brings with it for you.

Are you ready and willing to move outside your personal comfort zone for a change, and to give yourself a fair go?

The probability of you making a new friend or finding someone to share your hopes and dreams with over the next six months or so depends heavily on your honest answer to this question.

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger (male)

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EoT  

Im so sorry hun, i  wasnt concentrating earlier and must have misread, stressful day!

Thankyou so much for the reading, it was stunning and incredibly accurate!
Much appreciation!

The question at the end i think is a 'yes' answer.

Dear Katy,

You are more than welcome for the reading, and the misunderstanding was as much my responsibility as your own feelings of being stressed out may have been.

Attempting to communicate complex ideas and feelings over the internet is often fraught with difficulties, but until some other better method comes along for being able to help as many people as possible from all over the world from the relative comfort of one's living room, it is the best we have for now.

I have been both the unknowing perpetrator as well as at times the victim of many such misunderstandings in the past, and I fear that this is only another one of an ongoing series.

Please don't give it another thought,

L&L,

eye_of_tiger