Hello...its been a couple years since I had a reading from you. I enjoyed it and took it in to consideration...thank you.
If you have the time or could recommend someone trully gifted for a reading about my love life I would greatly appreciate it:)
Im not sure if you need anything more than name/bday...let me know

Kelly
2/26/82

Hi Kelly,  

Welcome back to the forum.

All I would need to know in addition to your name and DOB would be whether you are presently or are already in a relatively steady love relationship at the time of this request.

I cannot give you a relationship reading, unless you are already in it?

If you are currently not seeing anyone on a regular basis romantically, then rather than me making wild guesses rather than actual predictions about who you might meet in the future and whether you will both eventually "become an item" (get it together), my reading would be focused instead on offering you some hints to greatly increase your chances of finding romance during the period of the next six months  (which is the generally accepted period of time thought to be covered by readings of the type commonly given on this forum).

I await your feedback concerning this matter with bated breath,

Cheers,

EoT

I understand. I am in some kind of a relationship and Ive been seeing this man for little over a year now but I wouldnt call him my boyfiend if that makes any sense...its a VERY complicated situation.

Hello again Kelly,  

In order for me to give you this reading I feel that it is first necessary that I should be completely honest and upfront with you as to what I am feeling about your current relationship with this man.

I feel that for some reason only known to yourself that a protective wall has been erected or firmly put into place, to keep me from revealing exactly what you meant when you said that the situation is "very complicated", on this public forum.

I am not sure whether you are doing this consciously in order to challenge me to find out the truth (read your mind), or it is simply because you do not wish me to delve any deeper into the nature of your relationship as it would involve me revealing things that you would not wish other members to know outside of myself.

Now there are several options left available to me as to what I should do from here, none of which is particularly attractive to yours truly.

One would be to tell you that I cannot do as you have requested, and pass you onto another reader who may also encounter the same block as I have done.

Another one is to ask your permission for me to remove this wall that you have either intentionally or unintentionally erected, which does mean that I would almost certainly be going deeply into precisely why this relationship is so complicated in extreme detail, where it can be plainly seen by any other person who looks at it. This you may find uncomfortable or embarrassing (something I would never want to do to you as my friend).

The third and most unpalatable one is to on purpose and systematically break down the wall by sheer brute force using a special visualization technique which has been specifically designed for the purposes of what would be regarded as an emergency where it is judged to be vital that the reading should go ahead for the sake of your future safety and welfare.

To me this is morally wrong as to use such force is equivalent in my mind to a form of psychic violation, which is against the code I work by as a reader.  

Could you please therefore if you still wish me to go ahead with this send me a short private message to make the situation clearer to me while keeping things in strictest confidence between us. I will then upon receiving this let you know one way or the other if I feel that a reading would be any help to you, or could potentially only make your decision to stay with him that much more difficult than it otherwise might have been.

I am not permitted to give you a private reading under the rules, as there is an open forum policy in place which basically means that all requests, readings and follow ups must be confined entirely to the forum itself.

This policy has been put there by the owners just as much for our protection as your own, and working outside these guidelines is therefore not an acceptable option for me at all.

I value the admin's, your own and other member's trust in me too much, to even contemplate doing such a thing, so please do not take this personally if I tell you that the same rules equally apply to everyone (both the reader and the person requesting the reading).

Currently my hands are effectively tied behind my back.

Could you please either contact me ASAP via a PM with those personal details (keep it as brief as possible), or give me instructions under this thread as to how you wish to proceed from here, and  I will do my best to comply with your demands? I will not be offended in any manner if you chose to open your request up to another reader, although I would feel disappointed in myself for not being able to help you in some way.

Much appreciated,

eye_of_tiger

Hello again Kelly,

As I explained to you in my private message, the following reading only applies if the both of you have legally and otherwise cut all attachments with any former partners. Without you both satisfying this absolute requirement, there is no valid reason for me to go ahead with this reading, as your answer will be NO WAY. This is not a judgement, but is instead a statement of the facts as I see them.

Also remember that readings of the type given on this forum are thought to apply only to a period of the next six months after your request. This means that if you do receive a negative answer as part of this reading, it does not necessarily mean that there will be no future for you as a couple over the longer term.

In response to your question, I drew the Three of Cups.

Cups is the Tarot suit which is most commonly associated with the nature of our closest relationships, including but not exclusively those of a romantic nature. In other words, this particular card includes your relationships with both close friends as well as lovers. So far, so good.

The Three of Cups specifically celebrates the joys and strengths inherent in our relationships with both groups of people. All for one, and one for all. Three maidens raise their wine goblets towards the sky to propose a toast in celebration of and for others to recognise that often much more can be accomplished and created when there are two people working in close co-operation with and with a genuine affection for each other, when compared to if they had remained two separate, independent individuals.

In some cases, this could be seen as predicting that if marriage or settling down together with the intention to bring up your own family is being planned, then one (woman) plus one (man) equals three (mother, father and child).This is consistent with the common theme seen in any of the four Threes in the Tarot - the sum of the parts is much greater than only the two put together. Something wonderful and of great value often comes when two people who have a true affection for and deep sense of commitment to each other get together. United the two of you will continue to stand, while divided you will almost certainly fall or your relationship will almost without exception fail.

On the basis of this reading alone and putting all opinions and possible judgements aside, if all ties with former partners have been well and truly cut and you love each other enough and are both committed enough to each other to make every reasonable effort to make your relationship work, then I feel that the Three of Cups is a very positive omen with regards to the most likely future of your relationship with B over the next six months and beyond.

The only catch or potential fly in your ointment might be that although he had cut all previous ties with former partners of his, that she or they might not in turn be so willing to do the same with him. The danger of this happening is something I cannot determine on your behalf, without giving you a third party reading which is not permitted on this site. If it is does become a real problem, then any predictions which I could reasonably make based on this reading would be instantly made totally invalid due to this further complication.

YES, but with certain essential conditions which must first be met?

I sincerely hope that eventually everything will work out in the best interests of all people who are involved in this complex web of relationships.

Yours faithfully,

eye_of_tiger