Dear Sir/Madam

       I am going through a lot since 2 years now, just too many things which I won't like to say in this forum. Could someone be of help to give me a general reading?
Will appreciate your help
Thanks

Welcome Berty,

Thanks and no sir is necessary, but I am myself a 56 year old married man.

Is Berty male or female?

In the case if a general reading there is no need for any further information to be provided, as basically you are leaving it entirely up to the reader's inner guidance as to what is felt is most important for you to know at this time.

With respect you were hardly exaggerating when you told me that you had been going through quite a lot during the previous two years. Too much to want to discuss any of it on a public forum such as this one.

The Tarot card called The Tower which immediately jumped out for my attention in your reading is effectively telling me that your life has been and will possibly continue to be for some time turned topsy turvy upside down on it's head. Almost everything and everyone whom you have been able to depend on up until now for both guidance and a sense of security only appear to have left you shipwrecked or marooned on a distant shore without a paddle.  Actually you have never been fully left to your own devices. You were never expected to cope with all of these things entirely by yourself without outside help as required. No man is an island in himself, and neither is any woman?

As you should be able to recognise it is hardly a coincidence that having the Tower feature in your reading is found to be a good reason for you feeling fear and anxiety by many but not all people, but unless you are willing to take the necessary calculated risks involved when starting out again on your life journey, then you could also be unintentionally missing out on the valuable opportunities your circumstances present you with at the same time. It really depends on your way of looking at or interpreting the most likely meaning of this card in terms of your own life.

Are you going to allow your understandable fears of the situation to get the better of you, and stop you from doing the best you can with the resources you have already been given, or are you alternatively going to meet the challenges placed in your path head on, with the assistance of others who are specially qualified to offer you wise advice? Are you going to sit upright in the driver's seat or more in control over what happens in your life, or are you going to remain a helpless passenger who is simply going along for the ride but not getting anywhere you wanted to go, fast?

At the same time as this card is encouraging you to begin your journey of self discovery with faith and courage as your loyal travelling companions, it is also warning you of the dangers of expecting too much of oneself too soon. You are I sense a person who prides him or herself on being able to effectively do a job perfectly the very first time which you attempt it, but most things which are worth having in this life can often only be obtained by a slowly but surely middle of the road approach.

Beating up on yourself for making some mistakes now and then (which you are supposed to learn positive lessons from, rather than you avoiding making them in the first place) is surely highly counter-productive. How are you going to learn what your full potential is while you are laying in a hospital bed or worse an early grave? So what if you have to get someone to help you when things get too complicated or on top of you? This is an important part of the lesson which you presently confronted with.

These people have been sent to you specifically for this purpose, so do not feel in the slightest guilty if you need to enlist their services or pick their brains. Do not then look a gift horse in the mouth. Only by taking on these challenges in a mature and balanced manner and making a series of conscious decisions which affirm that life is still worth living can you possibly become more aware of and further develop your many inner strengths. You are far more powerful in creating your own future than you may presently imagine you are?

Love, Light and Peace,

eye_of_tiger

Thank u very much eye_of_tiger for the reading.

It was very encouraging despite some of it sad aspects.  I really do not feel that every thing turned topsy turvy upside down on me as u mentioned. neither do I have the feeling that everything and everyone whom I depended on, up until now for both guidance and a sense of security left me. On the contrary I believe I left those whom I depended and who had help me in the past for personal reasons like to able me concentrate and to find out about my true person. Unless I misinterpret your message!

  However, other aspects were also very true and correct. Specifically, the issue of me beating up on myself for making some mistakes in the past. The advices also enumerated will be taken seriously into consideration. Though I have been working on certain major issues you advised on already. Once again my gratitudes for the reading!
 
 I'd love to ask one more question though, but this this on a basic topic. The issue of marriage and affection was not discussed from your reading, neither was career or finance. What really interest me right now is the issue of marriage. Could you see from the cards if a divorce is eminent in the nearest future. Though the divorce is almost already there, it still seems like I'm dreaming. Whatever the case, I had like to know when any new relationship shall appear or be possible in the next future.

Again, Many Thanks for the reading

yours
Bertyjoe

N.B: I am a Male, I am sorry to have forgotten to mention it in the first post

Bertyjoe,

You are very welcome for the reading.

You wrote in your response.....



Often in my experience such symbols often tend to exaggerate the truth that you have been going through a lot for two years now in order to simply emphasize what it is important for you to know at this time in your life - which is that no matter what happens and no matter how much you are forced to put up with events you are being watched over and protected, and never left completely up the creek without a paddle.



Unfortunately because of restrictions in my time and energy as well as the forum guidelines for readers, I am only able to answer one question per reading or look at one life area at a time. Also my readings are not mainly about making predictions about your possible future, as you are constantly changing your future through what conscious decisions you make in the present moment. Most things in life other than perhaps death and taxes I believe are not set in stone, and can be changed or reduced in their effects by our own actions.

Please ask one question or about one area of special interest to you at the time in future readings, but if you are only looking for me to foretell your future, then I probably would not be the best person to help you through a reading. You should only request one reading every 30 days or so. Since this one was made on April 1st, please post the next one as a new thread on or anytime after May 1st, and I would be pleased to focus on your question for that month (but hold off on any requirement for me to make predictions concerning your divorce).

L&L,

eye_of_tiger

Thanks again for the prompt reply !

I am sorry for the last question. I hope I'm able to make a better and more specific request next time. The remarks shall also be taken into consideration.
I do understand the amount of work you put in to answer all the request posted in this forum and I very much appreciate your help.

May the Good Lord Bless you!

Many thanks
Wish u a wonderful weekend

Bertyjoe