Hello again Coloratura,
No I have not forgotten you, but I am currently experiencing serious technical problems with my computer at the moment (intermittent problems are the worst type), and am therefore about to do a major upgrade to a more powerful and hopefully more reliable machine, so that I can continue to help people like your good self for many more years to come. If I disappear offline at any time for several days, you should now better understand that I am not doing this to avoid giving anyone here a reading.
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| Basically, I'd like to know what insights you can gather or see from this situation. I understand that the advice you give me will be used as a guideline for how I am to act and that I can choose to act according to what you see or otherwise. |
My impressions for what they are worth on the basis of your reading are that there is still every reason for you to hope that your relationship with this person will eventually move to the next level at some time in the future,
but only if both of you want this enough and are prepared to wait for their prospective partner to catch up to them.
I am definitely not going to be the one to tell you that there are no further significant challenges ahead of you in order to bring him around to your own way of thinking and feeling, but unless you are reasonably patient and are willing to go at least half way towards making the first cautious approach, then I feel that the future of any relationship you might have had with him will be shaky at the best. At it's worst, it will be next to impossible.
I really feel that if you leave it entirely to him and for too long, then you could be waiting for the rest of your life and be unintentionally denying yourself of the opportunities to find the love and happiness you so deserve in the arms of another man, who should regard himself a being very fortunate indeed to be loved and to love in return a wonderful and kind person such as yourself.
The secret then I feel is to determine the most comfortable balance for you during the next six months or so, between not forcing him into something prematurely for which he is not yet prepared to make the necessary commitment, without at the same time giving him the mistaken idea that you are no longer romantically interested in him (and never were).
Take good care of yourself and work hard on finding the best balance for you,
Cheers,
eye_of_tiger
