Hi,

Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to read for you. Your question is rather a difficult one to answer though without tuning into your partner and then that would be against the guidelines of this form, and my own personal code of ethics which do not allow third part readings, or tuning into people without their specific request. I read your pm and apart from the obvious potential problem that I am sure you do not need me mentioning, I can sense that you are obviously rather fascinated and perhaps even flattered by the attention from this guy. Do you forsee or want the realtionship to become serious? Have you thought of all the possible repercussions and implications?

What I have done is ask my Wisdom cards for some insight into your situation and this is what was given.

Sometimes we are attracted to people that make us feel special, someone that can fill us and make us whole, someone that has intelligence and wisdom and a depth of mystery that makes us want to spend all our time with them. These people stand out and are very easy to spot, they are popular and gregarious and smile to everyone, perhaps you feel that you have found this in your man? Perhaps you feel special and wanted and needed but there may be a catch. Perhaps this is only a passing phase, something that looks so wonderful right now but that once the sun rises and daylight shines in on the relationship then the cracks may start to show and the depth of sincerity will be easier to see.

Perhaps now is the time to use all your sense, all your womanly charms and devices and intuition and look beneath the surface, cast aside the physical and look underneath to the heart and the mind and the soul, and ask youself what is going on there. You have possible already had feelings and niggling worries and thoughts that have concerned you then been moved to the back of your mind, but perhaps this may get more frequent and you are blocking them out and ignoring them. Have you spoken about the future? Have you discussed your wishes or have you only acquiessed to his, what do you really want? Wanting a dream and living a dream are two completely different things and the two can be separated by clear thought and listening to your inner self. You are still young and perhaps are looking for a more experienced relationship and have leapt on this one. Are you sure that it is right for you? Have you looked at others and perhaps wondered what it might be like? Investing so much of your heart and time is a hard thing to do without being sure how the other feels and whether there is a long term possibility here.

Have you been trying to stay aloof and ask for answers to decisions, perhaps asking for more time or commitment? Or maybe you have been turning your back on certain aspects of your life in order to concentrate more on this relationship? It is only natural to want more but be sure that that is what you really want. I think it is a time for talking between you two.