Hi Edgar
Firstly my hugs and respectful wishes on the passing of a fine lady.
EOT was not meaning any disrepect, he was just trying to interpret the post. We have different names and medical organizations in our country.You niece was caught in the moment and will have to hold her own memories but it wasnt ment to be like this.
I work in a medical organization and walk past this senerio daily. the only real thing that comes out of this is people end up regretting what happened,and then have to carry this as a burden for how ever long it takes to find realization.For some that will never come
i feel that everything will be fine after the police add there notes to the case and everything calms down.
Teaching for you is a great idea and would have merit.
Im sorry that your Mums passing was not a peaceful one but pease leave this moment in time as a memory to be forgotten and revieve the mother that loved you and you will find a starting point better than the one you are presently on.

Cheers Pete