Welcome Sanjeev,
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| Can anyone do my reading and guide me? I am broke and in miserable conditions. Even my family is against me?They enjoy mentally tormenting me.I want to make a good future not what my family tries to make. Also i want to know that i have psychic abilities or not and if i have how can i improve it and start utilising it. |
Firstly I believe that everyone has psychic abilities to a varying extent. The only real difference between a psychic and most of us is that these abilities are already more developed in that person, and that they have made a conscious decision to use their spiritual abilities in order to help others. So the answer to your question is a definite YES, and the best way I feel to become aware of what your psychic strengths are and how best to develop them to the point to be able to help others would be a combination of you attending a psychic development group or circle in your local area, and asking your questions in the main Psychic forum, and not in this reading one specifically.
You are according to your reading an intensely emotional and almost over sensitive person in many ways. I am not saying that you are entirely imagining that other members of your family may take great delight in causing you to overreact, but let us say that because of your extremely sensitive nature, you would feel their words and criticism much more keenly or deeply than the average person. To a certain degree you are the unwilling victim of your own extreme sensitivity, and other people recognising that they are likely to be able to push all of your wrong buttons at much the same time with relatively little effort on their parts would naturally be attracted to doing this fairly regularly. In other words beyond having a bit of fun, they continue to do these things because they know that you will always take the bait and enjoy watching you masking a fool of yourself. This is I am afraid human nature, and the only way I feel to get them off your back is to learn not to react immediately and so dramatically, removing their source of entertainment.
As you can never really hope to change the attitudes of other people around you (including family members), the only way I feel you are going to give yourself an above average chance of getting on top of this sorry situation is to gradually at your own pace learn to relax more, and to not feel that you must react in such an extreme manner to show them how hurtful whatever they did to you was. There is little doubt in my mind that this is going to be a long and difficult process for you to do, but in the end feel that once you begin to see some positive results from all your time and efforts to change for the better, then your rate of progress will get increasingly faster as time moves on.
Now a similar type of advice applies to other areas of your life, including your finances and even your health (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual). If you adopt a poor me victim attitude and constantly complain about your lack of money or poor health without at the same time doing whatever you practically can to improve the situation for the better, then you will probably get very little empathy or understanding from others around you, even those who love and care for you and would do anything to help if they felt they could. Adding to this is the fact that you often misinterpret their good advice and constructive comments as both a personal attack upon you as well as their attempt to take over control of your life. I really do not think that your close family members are intentionally either attacking you or wanting you to become more dependent on them than you already are, but because your subconscious mind believes this the effects of your sense of independence and optimism are basically the same as if these things were true.
My advice on the basis of this reading would be to listen to their advice without immediately going on the defensive, then sort out later what is both relevant and helpful to you in improving your circumstances. Show these other family members by your actions as well as your words that you and you alone have the right to decide how to live your own life, and that as a mature and responsible adult (who often takes himself a little too seriously for his own health) you are quite capable of doing whatever is required to improve both your money and employment situation, as well as other important life areas of concern to you at the time. Once they see you taking back control over your own life to live as you best see fit, and no longer being willing to continue to play their mind games with you, then they will be I feel much more likely to leave you alone in future when you are doing your best to solve your own problems.
By continuing to make no decisions you are in effect making a decision to hand over your personal power to someone else who does not deserve this right. Start taking more responsibility for meeting your own challenges with both courage and determination, and do not rise to the bait as often as you have done in the past. Keep your mind squarely focussed on whatever you have set out to achieve, and do not allow their often innocent comments to distract you from getting the task done and on time. Try not to be so sensitive in the ways in which you respond to your problems. Learning some simple relaxation techniques or some gentle meditation on a daily basis will not only help you to calm down and get things back into their proper perspective, but it will also I feel do wonders for your psychic development.
God Bless,
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