Dear Ani,
I believe then that you might be interested in reading the following article and perhaps trying the visualisation provided there, as it is a method by which I feel you can safely and gently break the energy cords which bind you to your ex, freeing both of you to go on to someone else without doing either of you any harm in the process.
"Decording" by Della McGee at Metaphysical Emporium, White Bear Lake, MN "Healing your life by decording your negative attachments"
tcwellness.com/issues/2001/08/04.html
Love, Light and Healing,
eye_of_tiger
