Hello again Tanya,  

I did not wish to suggest for one moment that I felt you had posted your request either on the wrong forum or site. I was just making you more aware of the reasons why third party readings are frowned upon as an invasion of a person's right to their privacy. But now that this issue is out of the way, let us get down to the task in hand as to reading what likely effects your ex - husband coming back into your life after a period of 7 years of separation will have on you as a valued member of these MB forums and our friend.

One of the most significant effects that I feel his return will have is that it will immediately dredge up painful memories of the reasons why you separated all those years ago. When combined with your understandable hesitation to trust him again as you suspect that his intentions towards you may not be anywhere as honourable as he makes them out to be, I do feel that you have some very difficult times ahead, depending largely on your ability to re-open the channels of communication between you that were formerly shut down.

There is going to I feel be a need for a willingness by both of you to be much more open about your feelings than was ever the case in the past, and that unless you can more fully co-operate with each other and are willing to compromise and not turn every conflict of opinion into a major battle, then I do feel increasingly confident that your courage in taking risks and your perseverance in the face of what are adverse circumstances will ultimately be rewarded.

In other words I feel on the basis of this reading that if you can instead of wanting to score points against one another recognise that it takes at least two people to make a relationship work, then your chances of staying together after a further six months are well above 50%, although nobody can offer you a rock solid guarantee that this will go either way. Only time, mutual honest communication and a whole lot of love and human understanding both for yourselves and each other is going to I sense offer you both the best possible chance of healing two deeply wounded hearts.

Peace to you,

eye_of_tiger

Thankyou so much!!!
Your reading was very accurate, we have actually started to speak to each other like civilized human beings after our last meeting ended up with  disatrous results two weeks ago.
I like what you said about commuication, and I believe that someday we even be friends. He is admant that he is in love with another though. So at this point I'm not sure about anything.
Your reading helped give me clairity and I know that our paths will cross again because we have deep feelings for one another.
 I really appreciate you taking the time to do this for me.
Thank you again from my heart,
Tanya

Tanya,  

You are very welcome for the reading, but I am saddened to hear that he feels he loves someone else, and would even consider asking you to remain only his friend. I do not feel that this would work in the long run, if he is as serious about her (and she returns his affections) as he presently seems to be.

Communication is intended as a two way process, and if you are the only one communicating your true feelings as I believe could easily be the case here, then while you should remain positive, always have plan B ready (and maybe C and D as well).

You cannot wait for him indefinitely to get his heart and mind straightened out? You have the rest of your life to live as you best see fit, and if he does not wish to share the time with you, that is his lost opportunity.

eye_of_tiger  

I think I would have to say that his thoughts do not match his actions. Why if he is so in love with this other person do they live provinces apart?
Why is he still sending me text messages? I think he just does not want to admit that there is a still a void that I left in his life .
Maybe one day our paths will cross again but until then you are dead on by saying that I cannot wait forever!!
I have a wonderful job and I am going to go far with my ambition that I know.
I am going to focus on me and I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.
I'll be honest ,it hurts though I am still shocked that after all of the time has passed between us there is still these feelings.

I  think that is what is giving me some hope now.
Thank you again  with all of my heart,
Tanya