Hi Pam,
Thanking you sincerely for the compliment you have just paid me, both in this forum and through your PMs. I can well understand how terribly frustrating this process of trying to find a job to help you pay the bills and support your two lovely children must be for you, but please do not take this too personally as it is happening on such a major scale with the current state of the employment market, and you are at a distinct disadvantage when compared to a single person with no family or other financial responsibilities of their own. I am presuming that at the age of 43 you have been in the workforce before, and that having been out of it for a while(?) your skills may not be up to date. But this does not necessarily mean that your situation is anything like being hopeless, and I do feel that a combination of whatever insights you can obtain from a reading, plus getting some professional advice from a qualified job counsellor or career advisor who can also provide you with information concerning the current availability of different types of jobs in your local area could greatly increase your overall chances of finding a suitable position sooner, rather than much later.
The financial and other pressures you must feel you are under at the moment (not only for yourself, but also for your children) give this search a great degree of urgency? Readings of this type are thought to refer to a period of the next six months or so, and therefore my question will be as to whether or not it is felt that you will be gainfully employed during that time period. This also means of course that if you were to become employed further into the future than this then it probably would not show up in this particular reading. I cannot unfortunately be more specific than that about the exact day, date and month. Only you will be able to determine during the interview when the pay is discussed, as to whether or not you feel the income will be adequate for both your children and yourself to comfortably live on. My guiding purpose is to help get you to the stage of reaching the interview in the first place. The rest is up to you.
Your focus card for this intuitive reading is named (quite appropriately I feel)
The Star. This card has peace and harmony as it's message and a promise of hope, healing and for the person's greatest wish to be granted. But the major catch is that whatever is hoped for will not be likely to arrive in the short term (next six months) without you doing a lot of your own homework or preparation in the meantime. My impressions are that the exact type of job you had in mind is not readily available in your local area at present, but that other opportunities could soon open up to you if you were to either update your work skills or gain further qualifications by means of the internet or through written correspondence. This should allow you to do this while still being able to stay at home and take care of your children depending on their ages, and also depending on what other money you still have left in reserve to tide you over until your retraining is completed.
Fortunately this is also thought to be a card which predicts that you will soon receive help from a completely unexpected source that will reduce the urgency somewhat of getting a job within the next few weeks, so do not be at all surprised if this happens in your own situation. This is a card which most importantly reveals to us what our future could possibly be if only we fully prepare ourselves to take maximum advantage of whatever job opportunities which may come along. But it is largely up to each of us to do whatever we reasonably can to create those opportunities by doing the hard work often involved with bettering ourselves until then. It says that you could be a star job wise, but only if you are willing to continue to consider all your options in a balanced manner, and not to become too bogged down with feeling sorry for yourself, as you are far from alone in feeling as though you have little of value left to contribute to the work force. The way in which we unknowingly as a modern society give people this mistaken impression creates a huge social problem, and when they do finally get a job their work efficiency must suffer terribly as a result of this "throw away" attitude which we have to any person over 25 years of age.
You are unlikely to get exactly the type of job(s) you were originally looking for during the next six months, but if you are willing to update and retrain, you will significantly increase your chances of getting something even better. It is often not what you know, but whom you know that counts in the end, so I feel that a job offer could come to you by word of mouth through one of your friends.
God Bless,
eye_of_tiger
