Heres the situation.
I had an affair with a married man eight years ago. He's only know about her for 4 years. He is still married with 3 sons and nobody knows about our daughter. Hes been paying child support and I've never had any issues with him until now. He just recently asked if I would be against a paternity test. I said no because Im sure he is her father. but after thinking about it, I changed my mind. If his wife were to find out and it was out in the open, he would have no reason not to try to get custody of her. I would be giving him proof and "ammo" to take her from me. He's a millionair so he has money and resourses to do so if he wants. I dont want to put my daughter in that situation, to his family and even if his wife forgives him, we are always going to be the ones who broke up their family. I dont want to do the test. What should I do? whats gonna happen?
Thanks in advance for any reading or advice.
Fathers bday- 09/28/73
My bday- 02/26/82
daughter -4/19/01

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Your question is of such important character, that we feel  the best advice is to get professional help if you feel your situation " dangerous" by this test.

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