Can i just have a general reading please?

Whenever I give a general reading I ask my inner guidance as to what it feels is most important for you to know at this time, and I am constantly brought back to what I said in my previous reading for you, given on March 9th.



The Hanged Man was interpreted to mean in that reading that your closest relationship is presently in a holding period or time of suspension or waiting, and unfortunately I do not feel that things have significantly progressed in any positive direction since then.

Now the reasons for this noticeable lack of progress are only known to you, and things are still complicated by the fact that you are understandably hesitant to provide deeply personal details on a public forum such as this one. Also readings are not permitted to be given through emails or private messages.

A time of suspension could be interpreted in a positive light to mean that you have already established a firm foundation within your closest relationship on which to later build, but that this is a valuable time of opportunity for you to tie up any loose ends and to recharge your spiritual batteries in order to better prepare you for whatever the future holds in store.

On the other hand it could be interpreted in a more negative sense to mean that you are holding on to old and worn out ways of having a relationship which although they once served you well, have now outlived their usefulness, or even worse are continuing to hold you back big time.

You are presently resisting the almost inevitable change within your intimate relationships with others, even when such changes would be of great benefit and advantage to you. You are stubbornly resisting positive change as a matter of principle because you do not wish to lose face, rather than because you have a valid reason for doing so.

I also get a strong hint with you of possessiveness in that if you cannot have the other person under your own terms, then nobody else can either. Sometimes the best way to show someone that you love him or her is to be willing to let them go. If they then make a conscious decision to stay then they are probably doing it for the most noble of reasons - that they love you and feel loved by you in return.

If alternately they only stay with you out of a sense of obligation, or because they fear that you might harm them or yourself if they did decide to leave you, then this would be like building your relationship on a foundation of shifting sand. It would be out of fear that they might stay, rather than a relationship based mainly on love?

But even two people who love each other deeply each have their own individual limits beyond which they are unwilling to go, and if you continue to leave things unsaid or do not fairly quickly address some of the conflicts which are presently holding you and your partner back from fully committing yourself to each other, then this reading would be interpreted as a wake up call that your remaining window of opportunity is not unlimited. In other words, it is time to get a move on towards accepting these changes with both a degree of humility and compassion for yourself as a fallible human being.

Kindest regards,

eye_of_tiger

i swear to god i am not doing that! if i am doing that i dont know how




if were already dating then why would i let him go, hes already told me how much hes loved me and isnt interested in finding someone else




yeahhh i have a feeling thats what its doing. hes got a very hectic life where he travels alot and stuff so i get the feeling that i should enjoy my slooooooow boring life while i can


thanks for the reading

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Please note that often a particular reading can be often either interpreted in a positive or negative manner (just as is also the case with a dream symbol).

From what you have said it is evident that the more negative interpretation of this Tarot spread does not apply in and is therefore not relevant or helpful to your personal situation.



Effectively this is saying that if your partner chooses to stay, be certain it is for the right reasons. If on the other hand he chooses to leave you (and you say that there is no indication at present that he would want to do this), then do not force him to stay. But possessiveness does not always need to be seen in such a negative way as forcing anyone to do anything they do not want to. It could perhaps be seen as an expression of your own constant need for reassurance that he will remain faithful to you.



Then since this is the interpretation that seems to resonate with your own set of circumstances, if I were you I would discard the rest and focus on this for now as being the most likely one so far.  

Actually I am glad you brought up this important point for other people requesting readings here to also see. The contents of whatever reading you receive must only ever be interpreted within the context of your own life or experiences Too many people these days are taking what is written or said to them completely out of context, and the highly imperfect means of communicating such complex ideas over the internet only I feel makes this much more likely to occur, than if we were seated facing each other in the same room.

No offence was ever intended,

eye_of_tiger

i know i know!! i'm in a pissy mood today(i think i need sleep more then anything right now) so everything is pissing me off, its not just you i've snapped at many people today! i apologize *huggles* and sometimes these readings confuse me to no end, i will look them up online and be like huh?  once again i apologize if i snapped at you!