Lots of hugs for you. I'm sorry this is happening. I have no answers, unfortunately.
The only thing I know for you to do, beside what Gem suggested, release all of it, the relationship, what is happening, to Divine and ask that the highest purpose be served for all. Just keep surrendering (that is not giving up, it is saying, I know I don't have the answers and have no control over this, I am giving it to you Divine.) the relationships involved, the pain, the fear, the sadness, the situation, everything and every part of it and TRUST that the highest purpose be served. Know that the Divine will deal with this. Let it happen.
Get help for yourself.
May the best happen for you and your family.
