I'm new... I've never had a reading before. But I'm really perplexed about my life patterns right now and I have never believed in coincidences.

I've met someone who seems to be a perfect match for me. There was a connection from day one, and life just happened to put us in the same place at the same time. Unfortunately, meeting this person has thrown my own personal life in complete upheaval.

Were we meant to meet? Or were we connected in a past life? He seems to have a very deep connection with me that feels like it was always there... or perhaps he's just very psychic?

Anyone who might have some insight I humbly ask that you share your gifts with me.

My name is Kristen, I'm 24, and a Libra, born under Libra/Scorpio cusp. The man in question was born a Scorpio if that helps anyone.

Welcome Kristen,

Am I wrong in feeling that when you said that "meeting this person has thrown my own personal life in complete upheaval" you really mean that you are either already within a relationship of your own, or that alternately he is? While on the surface at least it appears that he is one of your soul mates, and that you may have already known each other well from a shared past life experience, this does not then always necessarily mean that there will be no future challenges or possible sources of conflict between you. Often we are placed together once more in future lifetimes precisely to give us another opportunity to work through unresolved issues and conflicts of opinion which we experienced in past lives.

My impressions on the basis of this reading is that there is no lack of love and physical attraction between you, but that either one or both of you are still emotionally involved with someone else, or there is someone outside of your relationship with this man who is interfering in what is after all your and his business alone.

Yes I do feel that you were both intended to meet again during this current lifetime, but it is more a matter of the proper timing being off. Unless you can either convince the person or people from outside of your relationship that you are old and mature enough to make important decisions about whom you choose to share your life with, or one or both of you can first successfully break the emotional bonds which presently tie you to someone else, then I am having difficulty in seeing a future for you as a couple.

There is very little doubt in my mind that you connect well on a physical level and that there is a deep almost overpowering sense of physical attraction between you, but there are energy relationships which have been formed in the past with other people which unless these existing emotional ties are first honestly confronted and satisfactorily dealt with as two intelligent and mature adults, then they could very well continue to haunt you not only with regards to this particular relationship, but also unfortunately for you with reference to any other similar relationship you might want to have in the future.

Hoping that you will find these insights both relevant and helpful in your situation. There is still every reason to hope that your relationship will ultimately work, but probably not just yet.

Wishing you both every happiness and much love for the future,

eye_of_tiger

Well, I am guilty of not coming forward with the whole of the story. I myself am involved in a 7 year relationship with a very devoted but highly emotional Pisces. I've felt more of a security blanket for him than anything else. There's a lot of conflict amongst our friends about the way he treats me, and to be honest I never was able to realize it until I met the other man. On the contrast, the other man and I work with his best friend since they were little, who is a happy go lucky Gemini.

It's an odd couple, and she and I get along fine, but I know for a fact that she can turn around and say something else, and who can blame her for not wanting to see her best friend, almost brother, in a relationship that is quite unconventional.

I guess it would be another reading completely to find out how to deal with this kind of situation. In some respects I feel like I should stay with my current relationship... but I feel myself breaking apart underneath... in other respects I feel I would be better suited for the scorpio... but my heart can't bear seeing the Pisces man fall apart. ^^

This is what I meant by upheaval.  I never actually asked to meet the other man... when I started working with him I wasn't even expecting anything like this.

I really appreciate you taking the time to look into this. It's been a great help... though I feel in some ways I'm left with about a billion more questions.

Thanks again. ^^

The main purpose of a psychic reading is to first better identify what the problems are and to then offer you some hints to what we feel are the ways most likely to achieve success and happiness. I feel that I have defined the problem fairly well.

You are already in a 7 year relationship with another person, and some of the attraction you now feel toward this man (but certainly not all) is due to outside interference and unwelcome advice from your so called friends, which are only I sense adding to any problems which already exist between you and your present partner.

Therefore with regards to the possibility of outside interference I was correct once again, as I was previously in picking up on that you were not being completely honest with us about an existing relationship when you asked your question.

I have also said that unless you can stop this outside interference from your friends and work things out between you that you will remain emotionally tied to him indefinitely when entering into any future relationships (including this one). You will carry the negative emotional baggage from this relationship with you into any ones you might have from now on.

So I have fairly well isolated the two main problems -  this is your existing relationship plus your well meaning friends who are offering you conflicting advice as to what behaviour you should accept from him, and I have offered you what I believe are the only workable solutions - that is to make up your own mind as to what you are willing to accept or not accept in your man, work it out between you, or as a last resort break all emotional ties with your current boyfriend before committing yourself fully to another.

As to exactly how or if you will eventually use the insights and friendly advice I have offered you within your reading is now entirely up to you. No psychic reading must ever be used as a substitute for you making your own decision about what is the best possible course of action to take. A reading is only to be used in an advisory capacity. We give you what we believe are the best tools to fix your problem(s), but you are entirely responsible for whether or not and exactly how you will use them?

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger

Thank you.
I really needed to hear someone say what's been going on incessantly in my head for a while now. It's nice to see someone put it out there for me... because in reality I've had a hard time facing the facts of it all, and half the time I'm not sure if it's my own fears or just my overactive imagination coming up with these ideas.

Now I just have to decide how to deal with my current relationship.

-but that's a deal for another day.

Thank you very much for responding to my post so quickly. Have a wonderful week!