Hi, i'm new here. I was just wondering if i could get a reading on my most recent relationship. We just ended March 1st. I'm just wondering if we will ever get back together, or even if we will stay friends. We ended very suddenly. We didn't even have any fights when we were together, his ex girlfriend (who is having his child) said that if he was with me he would never be able to see his child. She made him chose me or the baby, which i think is horrible and unfair. But obviously he told me he didn't think we could be together anymore. I'm just wondering whats going to happen with us in the future? will we someday met in the future and be together? or will we just leave it at this and never talk? It just sucks becuase she didn't really give me a real choice, of course he was going to pick his unborn baby. The sad thing is she doesn't even want to get back together with him, she is just using the baby to control him still.

If it matters.... his name is Garrett his birthday is November 15th... my name is Jessica and my birthday is December 16th

Thank you in advance.

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Hi Jessica,

While I know that you do not want to hear this, I am bound to tell you that I feel that your relationship with Garrett is now sadly past history. Although it probably does seem terribly unfair to many of us reading this that his ex girlfriend is manipulating and morally blackmailing him into accepting his responsibilities as the child's father, when you say that she does not personally want him back living with her, all three of them (Garrett, his ex and their child) are now in a complex and unhealthy energy relationship with each other of which you were never really a part.

Even if Garrett had chosen you in preference to the baby, he would never I feel be able to provide you with the deep and lasting love you so richly deserve, as his heart would always continue to belong to someone else. The only possible way out of this sad and sorry situation would be if Garrett could be proven not to be the biological father, but it is not the role of a psychic reading to determine whether or not this might be so. Also this would require a third party reading (not permitted).

Regardless of any of these possibilities, on the basis of this intuitive reading I feel that you will need to fairly quickly accept that you broke up with each other not because of some fault of your own, but rather because Garrett was not being honest with you about his true feelings towards the child while you were still together as a couple. When it comes down to whom he feels most strongly about (although I do feel that he still has a deep feelings affection for you in his own twisted way) between you and his son or daughter, he has unfortunately made his decision, and now must live with the consequences of his choice.

I know how much you will miss him but any basis for a loving and lasting relationship you once had with him has now disappeared as if in a puff of smoke. I am not going to try to convince you that letting go of Garrett fully in your mind and heart is going to be easy, but I can guarantee that if you do not at least begin to let go of him now that you will live a life of only regrets, and by so doing unintentionally deny yourself of the opportunities to meet someone else more suitable as your partner.

I wish to offer you through this reading a real sense of hope that someone better for you will eventually come along, instead of offering you empty promises and false hope that might make you want to isolate yourself from any outside social contact in the future, so as not to get your deepest feelings hurt ever again. Loving someone as much as you do Garrett can also be excruciatingly painful, but sometimes the only way that we have left to show how much we love them is to release them. If the decides once this has been done to come back to you (and I feel this is highly unlikely), it will not be because he feels he is being forced to, but because he wants to. He needs to feel almost totally in control over his own life at all times, including who he chooses to live with?

Kindest regards,

eye_of_tiger

PS: Normally I would not give you a reading so soon after registering as a member, or without you posting first in some of the other non readings forums. Could you please therefore return the favour I have extended to you by contributing to some of other other non readings forums, before returning to this one in approximately one month's time?

Thanks,

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