I've posted about this before, needless to say the girl I was interested in hasn't come around. Do you see anything in regards to women?

I was looking back at what you wrote about the situation with Jessica in late January, and basically I feel that there has been little change since then in you getting back together with her. Am I understanding this correctly in assuming that it is for some reason only known to yourself impossible for you to contact her, rather than waiting for Jessica to make the first move? I am feeling as though you have not been perfectly honest with yourself about why you are so hesitant to be the first one to say sorry.

Without wanting to sound too judgemental and only wanting to help, is it the same lack of commitment to you personally playing a greater role in resolving your relationship problems that is causing you to want to prematurely bail out of this relationship and begin another one? While this time may seem like an eternity to you, much of it is of your own making, and in the general scheme of things 5 - 6 weeks of waiting probably seems much longer than it really is.



Needless to say because otherwise you would not be asking for another reading about this now, or needless to say because Jessica has not contacted you herself as you seem to have expected her to?

My feelings are that there is still a very good chance of you getting back together with Jessica if you will only play your cards right, and be more willing to be the first one to approach her. At this stage I feel that even the suggestion that you would be considering going out with someone else would soon drive the final nail into the coffin of your relationship with Jessica, and make any possibility of you eventually getting your partnership with her back on track that much more unlikely.

If you on the other hand continue to wait for Jessica to contact you, you could be unintentionally setting yourself up for much unhappiness in the future by waiting for the rest of your life as well as denying yourself of the opportunity of finding love and lasting happiness with someone else. Only you can decide in the end when or indeed if it is time to cut your losses with respect to Jessica, and to look elsewhere.

Be kind to yourself,

eye_of_tiger