Sorry Kyle,
For "boyfriend" in my posting above please substitute "partner".
Your original question was:
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| Can you please advise if I should stay in this relationship or is it better for the both of us to be friends and go our own ways? |
I started out by asking the cards as to whether or not it was felt that there was any possible way to get your relationship with her back on track, and I was immediately prompted to draw
THE HANGED MAN (HM).
Many people who have this card drawn in their reading misinterpret it as representing life and death, or an ominous sign that things are about to get so bad that ending your life seems increasingly attractive. The truth of the matter is that it has absolutely nothing to do with either of these. It's true meaning is not that you are simply hanging around doing nothing, but it is generally thought to be associated with a time of suspension (notice the play on words), meditation, and of the person having visions of the future, as it might be if nothing else changes in the meantime.
Another way of expressing this specifically with regards to your relationship is that it is presently going through a resting phase, and most importantly that anything you try to do to push things along according to your own time schedule is not only unlikely to help, but probably will only make matters considerably worse.
The idea here is that by learning to stop resisting everything that happens as if we were totally in control at all times and consequently entirely responsible if there are obstacles placed in our paths, there are times when it is better to surrender to a Higher Power and go more with the flow rather than to constantly swim against the current. You are being told in no uncertain terms that your relationship still has a very real chance of surviving this difficult period if you will only be willing to give up the driver's seat now and then and allow your inner wisdom to guide you as to when the time is right to make the next move. In other words, once you have done everything you reasonably can to improve communication between the two of you, worrying yourself unnecessarily as if everything depends on you is only more likely to bring about the very condition which you most fear - which is her leaving you and you somehow being destined to live the rest of your life alone.
Your date of birth is 08/24/1977
8+2+4+1+9+7+7=38 3+8=
11
Using numerology this gives you a Life Path Number (LPN) of 11, which happens to be one of the so called Master Numbers (11, 22 and 33). They are called Master numbers because they possess more potential than other numbers. They are highly charged, difficult to handle, and require time, maturity, and great effort to integrate into one's personality.
11 (the psychic's number) is the most intuitive of all numbers. It represents illumination; a channel to the subconscious; insight without rational thought; and sensitivity, nervous energy, shyness, and impracticality. The 11 personality has all the aspects of the 2 (1+1), enhanced and charged with charisma, leadership, and inspiration. It is a number that when not focused on some definite positive goal beyond itself, can instead be turned inward to create fears and phobias. The type 11 person consequently often walks the fine line or tightrope between greatness and self-destruction. Its potential for growth, stability, and personal power lies in the acceptance of intuitive understanding, and of spiritual truths. For the 11, such peace is not found so much in logic, but in faith.
Your partner's date of birth on the other hand is 05/25/1985
5+2+5+1+9+8+5=35 3+5=
8
This gives her an LPN of 8.
With the Life Path of the number 8 the person is mainly focused on learning the satisfactions to be found in the material world. The Life Path 8 produces many powerful, confident and materially successful people. Most of their concerns involve money and learning about the power that comes with increased wealth and social status. These are generally highly ambitious, highly practical no nonsense people who feel both more confident and capable when dealing with solid objects they can taste touch or feel than with abstract theories, spirituality or faith. To this type of person logic and reasoning are the only way to gain knowledge and to make any significant progress in this world. Depending on their instincts in order to guide them is to be honest rather frightening and foreign to a person such as this.
From the above general interpretations of both your partner's and your own life path numbers you might be thinking that you could not have been more unlike each other than if you had planned it that way. Your partner is more comfortable using logic and reason, while you are far more likely to use your intuition when making important decisions which could potentially have a large impact on your relationship. Neither when used by itself is any good, but when combined in a balanced manner then often we can enjoy the unique benefits of both at the same time. What I suppose I am saying is that just because your partnership is one of extreme opposites it does not automatically follow that it cannot work.
My impressions on the basis of this reading are that instead of emphasising the many differences in your two personalities that you should instead work more closely together to build upon what you have in common. Yes there is still every reason for hoping that she will eventually come around to your way of thinking after this temporary resting period is finally over, but only you can decide when the time has arrived for you to cut your losses and leave her for good (if indeed it ever does get to this point). I do not believe that you could simply remain good friends for very long. It would be too painful to endure after what you have already gone through together?
May your God go with you always,
eye_of_tiger
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