Can anyone help me on my path in life by  giving idea where i go wrong? each time i try to met new people or for most part just about anyone in my life leave ... in a bad way or after building my hopes.... and having things in common, its like two sides of a chain that cant be linked up... hope this makes sense to someone who might help?

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Are you looking instead for some friendly advice about how to meet people and make new friends, and perhaps some moral support as well?

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eye_of_tiger  

well maybe a bit of both.... certainly could use some psychic guidence... as i feel its a deep spiritual conflict in me... maybe i am wrong... but any help appreciated i posted for a reading, i know its bold of me and i dont really like to ask but im really at my wits end

Of course the main problem was that I could not offer you a reading in the other forum. Now that your posting has been moved I would be more than pleased to be of assistance to you in both regards. You are unlikely to get very far or receive any help if you do not ask. In fact this is a Universal law. Even our guides are not normally allowed to intervene in our lives if we have not first requested that they should do so (so please do not feel embarrassed if you feel you are at wit's end, and want some help fast).



Your first question assumes that this continues to happen because of something you have yourself done wrong. While I believe that we must each accept some degree of responsibility for whatever happens in our relationships with others, accepting the total responsibility will only eventually overload our ability to cope, and do further serious damage to what remains of our feelings of self worth. The real question here is as to whether your partner at the time is purposely attempting to shift all of their own guilt on to you, or whether instead you are unintentionally giving out signals to them that you feel you do not deserve any better than they shabby treatment they are handing out to you. To be honest in your own personal circumstances, I feel that it is likely to be a bit of both.

While I can easily understand why you are beginning to feel that you are somehow destined to have this happen to you over and over again, such a thought can become a self fulfilling prophecy. By continuing to focus on this thought you are possibly attracting the very conditions into your life which you most fear, and you could also be attracting the type of person most consistent with your own poor assessment of yourself. I know that this is always easier said than done and that I do not know exactly what it feels like to be you and therefore have no right to be offering you advice now concerning how to live your life, but such beliefs are examples of what some self help authors call stinkin' thinkin'.

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Above all I am telling you this not to give you any further reason to beat up on yourself for having these problems (as they are unfortunately increasingly common in a world that is becoming more anti relationship with every passing day), but not being able to directly read the people who have walked out of your life in the past, and not being able to convince them to change their minds, the only person I feel I can really help is the person requesting this reading. I strongly believe that if we each can consistently change our thoughts and focus them in a more positive direction that what happens in our outer experiences will eventually fall more into line with or reflect the thoughts which we most frequently hold in our consciousness.

Instead of always feeling that you are a victim of ill fortune and that there is something intrinsically wrong or bad about you which tends to drive people way from you if they ever stop to get to know you better, first think how you can be more of a friend to them (show an interest in what they are interested in, even if you are really not). When we are down on ourselves we frequently withdraw into our own private world of our own negative thoughts, so temporarily turning your thoughts away from your own perceived failures is often just what your inner doctor ordered.

My advice on the basis of this intuitive reading is to regularly attempt to distract yourself for at least a couple of hours every day helping someone else with their own problems, and for that time at least not allow your mind to return to your own. Not thinking about your problems in making and keeping friends and lovers while this is happening does not make them go away as if by magic, but it does progressively starve them of the energy they need to keep you trapped.

By being more of a friend to both yourself and to strangers in need, I feel that you will then have a much greater chance of once and for all overcoming your stinkin' thinkin', which will then release the energy which was previously tied up in continuing to escape such self defeating thoughts, to be used instead in the much more positive capacity of nurturing and building upon what relationships you do have in the future. No, you are not destined to spend the remaining years of your life alone, and there is nothing more wrong with or bad about you than there is with any other human being.

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger  

Hi...Tiger thanks so much for this reading.... it all makes sense... about the relationship particulary.....that was very hard blow....to learn someone had no emotions for me , as they put it and showed it...after 15 years.............and abandon me in another country.....Yet, it was my idea to come here....... so in that respect i was more adventurous...But the thing is i do try very  hard.. with people to kind pleasent ask about them...infact, its practicaly subconcious because this is all part of my nature....But i still met only those who play with me..so to speak... or do not care, when they said they did....I will try now to be more posotive about me, even if i do remain alone. Last guy i met for chats, was talking to me about death a lot.... and....yet seemed friendly... then stopped getting in touch after 2 times...of meeting up........ i can be psychic at times, i have had experiences.... and indeed photographed  spirits.... i just wish i  could get some posotive spells or something to sheild me from the wrong influences....as well as me taking steps to improve things. its been a long 3 years!