For those of you not familiar with my previous posting,  it was regarding my soul mate, Anthony.  Please read that for background information (listed under my member name PD18750).  Now here's my main problem

OK, my instincts certainly aren't lying when I said that Anthony was my soul mate.  HOWEVER, things really did bottom out.  He's been very stubborn and elusive, particularly sticking to his principle that he just doesn't want a relationship at the moment, in spite of whatever feelings he has towards me (which he told me he doesn't feel the same way, but I detect that he really does have some on some level).

He's currently not talking to me at all, and I really feel that it is his loss totally.  I KNOW he would be the perfect one, but ultimately, I can't change his mind or convince him, as much as I tried to, especially with my most generous Valentine's Day present (which I thought would change his mind, but he still was stubborn about it).  And honestly, I've got no clue what he did with the gift or if I'll ever hear from him again.

As for other news, I received a psychic reading a couple weeks ago, and she told me I'd meet somebody around Feb. 21st whose name starts with a "C".  It just so happens I have a date that evening with a Leo guy named Carlos.  Is this just coincidence or will something amazing come out of this?  

I'm not really sure, but I'd love your psychic opinions on the Anthony issue and Carlos as well.  Please help, as I feel like my energies are scattered everywhere and it's so hard to focus on what's important right now.

~Paul~

Also keep in mind that both Anthony and Carlos are LEOS, and I think that's my ultimate match, which I do put some faith in the stars.  In my chart, my Venus sign is in Leo, and also Venus will be moving through Leo over the next several weeks.  I imagine this all bodes extremely well for me and how I feel?  It's like I already know what I want in a partner and it's making me go "crazy," if you know what I mean haha.

Hello again Paul,  

I personally feel that it is still a bit too early to be able to offer you an entirely new reading concerning these dramatic changes so soon after the previous one, but could I leave you instead for now with something I said in the reading I gave you earlier this month?



I strongly believe that while your relationship with Anthony currently appears to have bottomed out, and whether or not Carlos is also one of your soulmates, that moving on to him and forgetting Anthony completely is only likely to significantly increase your own feelings of confusion and bring you much unhappiness in the bargain. I am not saying that you should simply wait around indefinitely until Anthony finally comes around to your way of thinking, but without being able to read him directly I feel that he has major life issues going on around him which currently make it very difficult for any one to communicate with him, unfortunately including you.

Rather than trying to go back to how you related before these problems started, use this temporary time out as an opportunity to talk honestly to each other without any undue pressure for him to come back to you only under your own terms, if at all. I cannot stop you from having a relationship with Carlos, but with Anthony's present mental and emotional state this could cause him to feel so insecure and jealous that I do not know how he would react, and how far he might take things in order to get you back (I still feel that he loves you in his own way).

I sincerely hope that these words have in some small way helped you, and please do not immediately panic as a result of some of the warnings I have issued, as I sense that basically Anthony is not going to go to any extremes that would possibly make him want to harm himself or someone else. But some of his thoughts could be quite dark during this difficult period, so remain sensitive to this when attempting to help him as your much loved soul mate. You have a lot of work ahead of you with Anthony.

Regards,

eye_of_tiger

i do appreciate all the help eot and others... i  just got a reading from mango mom.. eot before... etc.. and i thank you all for telling the truth, not what we want to hear.............

so far... all is true in the readings.  at least for me.   thanks.. for giving it to us just as we need to get it... truthfully.