In Michelle's defense, she did give me feedback, it was in a pm rather than posting it on the board, I will share it here, I also erred by not posting it on the forum, so we all experienced a new lesson.
Here is her reply:
Thank you Mangomom,
Alot of what you said really made sense. I do need to find a good teacher and I do need lessons on humilty and keeping my ego in check.
The only "trauma" or dramatic life changing thing I have gone through recently has been the birth of my 1st child. But he is a difficult little guy and I do feel like I have matured/aged 10 years so maybe that's it (hopefully there is no impending disaster on the horizon?)
I will follow this advice closely, thank you so much.
I will leave it up to EOT to decide whether he has anything to add.
Love, Light and Laughter
MangoMom