Unfortunately on the basis of this reading I presently feel unable to give you a definite answer as to whether or not your marriage is safe, and therefore whether you and your husband will still be together in a year's time. This could either be genuine psychic information, or it could alternately be that I am simply picking up on your own understandable doubts that your relationship is as secure as you hoped it might be. I suspect it is probably a combination of both.
The first card which I drew when asking about the future of your love life was the King of Cups.
This card has two quite opposite alternative interpretations, one of them being very positive, while the other is definitely not in your current circumstances.
I will start with what I believe is a particularly positive omen that you will be reconciled with your husband concerning his "wandering eyes", and as long as it is only his eyes which were wandering that you should not have any further reason for concern that he will decide to go and live with someone else, leaving you with the children. The King of Cups can be thought to represent a man who is himself highly motivated and committed to being a better, husband, father and provider to his family. Someone who has seen the error of his ways and is making restitution by his actions and not just through his words. Kings have always been associated in my mind with passion and enthusiasm, but the issue here is whether or not he is passionate and motivated enough about his own marriage and family to realise that by straying from his family he would be losing so much for the sake of a fleeting love affair that I feel would only last for a short time before it dawned upon him just what a terrible mistake he has made.
Now the other more negative interpretation of the King of Cups is that it symbolises the beginning of a new relationship and a man who is deciding to approach the woman that he loves to make a proposal. While some readers do try to minimise and conceal this possibility by suggesting that it refers to him beginning approaching his own wife and making a proposal to mend any differences and to begin a new and hopefully happier phase of his existing relationship, I feel that it would be both dishonest and irresponsible of me to fail to mention this possibility, and by so doing give you and your children perhaps a false sense of security if in fact your suspicions turn out to be correct.
My impressions are that your husband has on many occasions thought seriously about what it would be like to have an extra marital affair, but has recognised that in the end he would not be able to live with himself if it involved him losing the four people he most loves in this world (his wife and children). Nothing I have said in this reading would be admissible as evidence of his infidelity in any court of law I know, and I would advise you not to act in haste without having real physical evidence that your husband has acted upon his feelings.
If every married man who has ever looked at another woman with bedroom eyes were thrown in prison, they would all be bursting at the seams overnight. As long as a look but don't touch policy is strictly adhered to, really I do not know what you can do about his behaviour which is obviously a male thing (men are such visual creatures when it comes to feeling turned on). To a certain extent you will need to bide your time and watch for any signs that he he has physically strayed, without at the same time effectively ruining your own marriage by watching his every move as though you are simply waiting to catch him out. If he feels that he is no longer trusted with regards to anything, you just might push him in the direction you feared he was going before - away from his family who loves him so. In other words you need to find a comfortable balance point between keeping your eyes open for real evidence, without at the same time losing all feelings of trust within your marriage, and unintentionally pushing your husband into another woman's arms.
Hoping this has helped to confirm your own feelings as to whether or not and how much to take his wandering behaviour seriously,
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