Hello my mystical friends!


  My name is Paul .  I've recently delved into the field of astrology/numerology, and I'm in love with the science ;).  It's meant a lot to me so far, and I put all my faith and trust in the stars.

   My main and only concern at this point in my life is my LOVE prospects.  I recently met this amazing guy in early January.  

   When I first went out to dinner with him, I was completely taken aback.  His personality/mentality/sense of humor simply won me over that night.  I haven't seen much of him, mostly because he tends to be very elusive with his emotions and feelings.  I'm the type to just lay my heart on the line.  Currently, we're just talking online and having a few phone conversations here and there.

    An  incident occurred a couple days after dinner, whereby he "moved too fast," and regretted it.  However, he's still in contact with me.  He told me he doesn't want a relationship with anyone at the moment and he only sees me as a "friend," but my intuition is telling me differently.  I really believe he truly likes me, although he may not express it as much as I do.  For some strange reason, I feel like he is my SOUL MATE, and I would do absolutely anything in my power to have him in life.

   My request is this:  Will we develop a very strong relationship sometime in the future and what are the prospects of it?  I'm literally being torn apart over this, because he is in my mind every single day.  I'm really thinking it's a question of WHEN here, but I'm open to other comments, suggestions, etc regarding me and him.

   Please give me some insight into what to expect, what's going on, etc.  I'd greatly appreciate it.  Thank you all!

~Paul~

Mod note:
In order to protect you and your friend I have taken away info.
If they are needed, the Reader will ask for them and give info on how you shall deliver....mostley they are not needed.
I can see you have asked for 3 different ones.....it might give you more confusion then help...Good Luck

Rhutobello
Site admin

Hi Paul,

Firstly I want to say that I agree completely with your feelings that this guy is one of your soul mates, and that there is also a definite potential here that your relationship with him will eventually deepen beyond being a friendship.

Unfortunately there is a highly romantic idea going around that just because a person is one of your soul mates during this current lifetime that you will each automatically know what your partner is thinking at all times, that you will each know when it is the right time to make your move, and that you both will live happily ever after without ever experiencing any conflicts or differences of opinion.

Also unfortunately, most of this is also nonsense.  

Human relationships are often hard work, no matter how much we may love the other person, and this guy is understandably still too uncomfortable with his own sexuality to be able to accurately determine how fast he should move with you. Simply because we love each other deeply, we all at some times make mistakes, and we say or do what with the luxury of hindsight was probably not the wisest thing to do.

Rather than putting all your faith and trust in the stars, put at least some of it instead in yourself and your feelings for this person. If he is content with remaining as only your friend for the immediate future, but openly admits that he likes you a lot (and you obviously have deep feelings for him in return), then I do feel that you have a real basis for a long term and relatively happy relationship with this man. Don't try pushing things along according to your own rigid time schedule as to where you should each be in your relationship at any time, but relax more and allow nature to tike it's almost inevitable course, which is as I see it is for you eventually to become a couple.

Your instincts are not therefore lying to you either about him being one of your soul mates, or about the possibility that if you both continue to play your cards right and get to know each other better without interference from outside your relationship that there is definitely a potential for a loving partnership to develop, some time in the future. It is more that your intuition's sense of timing is still a bit off?

Wishing you and this special person in your life continuing good health and much happiness ahead, both as individuals and as a loving couple living with each other day to day,

Cheers m8,

eye_of_tiger

Hi Paul,
This is not a psychic reading but I agree with Eye of the Tiger's reading and his/her assessment of your situation. Like you, in my time, I have been carried away wanting things to go at my speed and, in a way, I may still be doing that at present. Having come from a non-western background and culture, I believe what will be, will be. I can see eyebrows being raised to the ceiling on this last comment.
You are so young, Paul, enjoy his company and, indeed, the company of other guys with your soul mate and with your friends.
It is so easy to give advice as I feel I should follow some of what I preach in my own life. But at least take the advice of those of us who have done it before you. Life experiences recognise no borders, culture or language.
All the best in yours!
cedars

Thank you so much for all your advice.  I know my feelings are strong for this one person, and I have full faith that we can develop something very solid together and expand our circle of friends together.  

Thanks again

You are very welcome for the reading Paul.

It was very nice to meet you.

EOT