i know this will not help me at all but it keeps running through my mind.  Is my ex interested or seeing someone new?

thanks

Since I only just gave you a reading on January 28th, I feel that it would be terribly unfair to give you another one so soon.

You asked:



The only really effective way of determining this for yourself is to at least be the first to approach him, and ASK.

You may not on your first attempt get a straight answer, and any answer you do eventually receive may not necessarily be to your liking, but if you continue to try to read his mind about whether or not his intentions are honourable, you could be waiting indefinitely or possibly for the rest of your life, regretting that you never got up enough courage to hear it straight from the horse's mouth (so to speak), and by so doing miss many other much better opportunities for finding love in the waiting arms of another man who is both willing and capable of giving you the true and lasting kind of love you so richly deserve (if your present bf is not capable of or willing to do this).



I completely agree with you that continually turning these thoughts and doubts over in your mind is almost certainly counter-productive, but who ever said that the human heart was always logical, or that we always do things which are in our own best interests?  

Welcome to the highly imperfect human race, of which we are all either willing or unwilling members.

Please do not therefore beat up on yourself for something which is part of the way both your human mind and heart frequently tend to work.

Your's faithfully,

eye_of_tiger

thank you so much for your wise words....i fully understand what you are saying.

The heart is definitely a tricky thing ( as well as the human mind)