Hi All,
Sorry for being so bold as to ask for a reading, but I could really do with some guidance. I had a terrible year lasy year and was very ill, however I seem do be doing well and things are finally starting to get back to some sort of normality. I went to a talk last week where a lady was talking about the tarot and she pulled a card for me and told me I was going to leave my husband- this has really unsettled me. Also, I am trying to develop myself and would really be intereested if you could sense anything about me. I am a pisces and 35, married with 2 children.
Hope this helps
Reikiladyx

With due respect to the lady who told you this this is absolute nonsense, and I feel that it was very irresponsible and non professional on her part to tell you that this would definitely happen on the basis of any psychic prediction.

After having experienced such a difficult year and being so ill during 2007, this is all you did not need to hear, especially when as you say you things are getting back to some sense of normality.

If the psychic, fortune teller or inspired speaker possesses any genuine ability to be able to make such a negative prediction, she unfortunately has very little idea of the moral responsibilities involved with doing this type of work, to back them up.

Out of my own interest, what was her talk meant to be about?

Even if I saw in your reading that you were having difficulties in your marriage (and whose marriage does not present difficulties at times), to say such a thing to me gives all of the genuine and compassionate readers out there a bad name as well. Her behaviour reflects very poorly on the many remaining people who work tirelessly to develop their psychic gifts in order to more effectively help others, and I am afraid that while this is a spiritual website, I can hardly contain my feelings of anger over what she has done. I however chose to channel the energy of my anger towards giving you your reading, by separating the person from her behaviour and wishing her no harm.

With regards to your marriage and whether or not I see any possibility that you will choose to leave your husband, especially after he was such a wonderful means of support to you during your illness last year, I receive no indication whatsoever that is is even likely to occur within the next 50 years. Rather than seeing you drifting gradually apart from one another, I interpret the King of Wands as meaning that you are both highly motivated and passionate about relating to each other at increasingly deeper levels. I recognise a strong spiritual or soul mate element within your marriage, as if you would rather die than to walk out on the other partner when things began to get difficult.

Kings also suggest to me that you are each entering an important new phase of your relationship with your spouse, in which your roles are about to be redefined for the better. Please therefore do not allow anyone (including myself) to claim that they know better than you and your husband what is in your best interests, as only the two of you can or should decide this.

The King of Wands specifically suggests that a temporary change in surroundings is in order, while kept within your household budget. Even if you and him could have a weekend together away from the daily routine once and a while, I sense that it would serve as an effective emotional safety valve. There is also the possibility that one or both of of you is either about to get another and better job, or be promoted in an existing one.

Overall this King is frequently interpreted as meaning that the time has more than arrived for you to both do some mental spring cleaning (whatever the season outside might be) and throw out old and unproductive ways of thinking and doing things, in order to make way for the new.

Rather than seeing this card as being a negative omen for your marriage during the next six months or so, I feel that it means that the second and best phase of your marriage is about to begin, so hang on and enjoy the ride as best you are both able. It will not be without it's challenges, but this should not come as any great surprise to two seasoned campaigners like your very good selves. Even if your marriage has been within the last five to ten years, it is as though you have actually known each other over many successive lifetimes in several different but complementary combinations of roles.

Hoping that this reading will neutralise many of the unnecessary concerns that this lady was responsible for concerning the future of your marriage (with friends like this, who needs enemies).

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger  

I cant thank you enough for your promt reply as it was really playing on my mind.
The lady was giving a talk on being psychic and literally just pulled three cards for a quick analysis for several of us present- me being one of them.
You are so right that my husband was extremely supportive during my illness and deep down I know that the problems we have currently are due to redefining our roles as he had to take my place over the organising and care of the children and the running of our household whilst I was sick and now that I am (fingers crossed) recovered we are finding it difficult to reclaim our roles.
You are also very right about us booking a weekend away for just the two of us and I have booked it this very week for us to go away in March.
Just wanted to thank you once again- You have made me feel so much better and I truly appreciate you taking the time to reply.
Best wishes
reikiladyxxx

Hi Reiki lady
I dont pick up you leaving hubby but it will be a long process to get things on track.
You did well to get to the stage that you are at now, thats a huge pat on the back.
This year will be a turning point at can only get better.
Cheers Pete

Dear Reikilady,

Thanking you for your positive feedback, and please enjoy your weekend in March alone with your husband, as it does sound to me that you more than deserve some R & R (rest and recreation) at this particularly busy point in both your lives.

A valuable opportunity to recharge your spiritual batteries, and to rekindle the flames of your passion for one another?



eye_of_tiger