hey all,

I don't know how to begin with my request, but i am feeling lost, lonely, scattered and live in pain.. as i never get what i want in every aspect of my life including my (heart Desires)..

Everybody telling me that 2008 will be great for me as a Cappi with an Virgo Ascendant, but till now i dont feel that is the case or it will ever be,

would anybody pls do me a reading telling me if i will ever get what i want ( satisfy the most important desire in my life?)

Thanks in advance,


Aida

Hello Aida,  

This is precisely why I do not like to make any definite predictions on the basis of the readings I give on these forums. Regardless of whether it is through the use of astrology, numerology or the Tarot cards, I feel that making definite statements about exactly how the future will turn out does not take into account the fact that most of the future is not set in stone or predestined to happen, and that therefore much of what will eventually come to pass is being constantly created and remoulded by whatever conscious decisions we each make in the present moment. I am not saying that these are not valuable intuitive tools when used in a proper manner, but I am suggesting that to make 100% guarantees or outlandish general statements like this is only likely to lead to more and more misery on your part, and a serious loss in confidence on the part of someone whom is otherwise an excellent psychic reader.

While I realise and am sensitive to your disappointment in believing that life has not been treating you fairly, I do believe that this astrology reading has become a focus which is causing you to ignore all the parts of your life which are still going relatively well. You may not only feel disappointed, but you may feel guilty that you have not apparently lived up to the astrologer's predictions.

You are selling yourself terribly short by measuring your own self worth by how you feel that your life failed to come up to someone else's expectations, rather than using your own judgement as to whether or not you are making progress towards these ideals, slowly but surely. Rather than continuing to use what the astrologer predicted to hit yourself over the head and punish yourself for many factors which were beyond your control, temporarily put it away and replace it with a positive written plan as to how you could practically achieve what was predicted in it through the responsible use of your own time and efforts. Then take one day at a time and in this manner prove to yourself that your subconscious mind's belief that your life will never get any better for you and/or that you would not deserve it if it did has no basis in reality.

Prove to yourself once and for all (for in the end this is all that really counts) that your subconscious mind's predictions are even less accurate than any made using astrology. Create your personal future as you desire it to be by taking a number of small but still important practical steps towards your cherished ideals on a day to day basis, rather than passively sitting on the fence waiting for the Wheel of Fortune to turn once again in your favour. Create your own good luck?

Hoping this helps,

eye_of_tiger

Hi Eye  

Thank you for reading my post and for your time to reply to me..

I know it's so wrong to believe whatever others telling me about my future even if others are talented people in astrology and who had psychic abilities..

My problem is not having high expectations for my future depending on what astrologers say.. it's simply that .. for years now i did not get anything of my goals (i.e, the most cherished goals ) including my heart affairs although i was trying very hard to sooth any sharp edges in every corner and every detail, that including progress in my career, re-locating and relationships, and every time i get very close to succeed and to reach my goal, I suddenly find myself loosing all the progress i made and realize that I HAVE NOTHING & SHOULD START AGAIN FROM SCRATCH.. ( every time the reason for the failure was beyond my control)

I don't know why that happening to me .. although i am as everybody knows me say that I am a hard worker and so organized and having very neat character, even in relationships I always start it happily and continue to the point of making the decision to a commitment ( when i were completely in love) at that moment I find myself having nothing but tears, pain and sorrow for loosing the person i am in love with finding all my dreams like clouds up there in the sky and i am unable to reach any of them ...

Have a gr8 day and best regards,

Aida

Life is mainly a matter of trial and error (mostly error), and the fact that you have not accomplished whatever you set out to do according to your own time schedule does not either mean that you have failed, or that in order to make any further progress you will necessarily need to start from scratch.

Thomas Alva Edison the most commonly accepted developer of the modern incandescent light bulb required over 7000 experiments before he hit upon the right one.

Edison soon had over 7000 ways of not making a workable light bulb!

Please do not therefore become disheartened or dispirited if you do not achieve what you expected on your first, second....attempt.

Surely your life goals are of much greater significance to both yourself and the Divine plan to throw what progress you have already made away by losing heart, than finding the ideal light bulb was to Edison?

We often as humans learn far more from our mistakes, than we ever can do from our own little victories. If you will not therefore give yourself permission to make your mistakes now and then and take whatever positive lessons you can from them with you into a hopefully brighter future, not even the most world renowned astrologer or psychic will be able to effectively help you.

Be kinder to yourself,

eye_of_tiger