Hi,
my name is Kyle and I was wondering if someone would be kind enough to help me by giving me some guidance (psychic/tarot reading) as I am going through a rough patch at the moment.
I'm in a defacto relationship and we have an 18mth old beautiful son. My partner fell pregnant after a few mths meeting so we stayed together and try to make something of our lives with a child. It's been a very rocky relationship as we don't seem to be compatible but I try. I'm really trying to make the best of everything but I'm at a crossroad. I want to stay with my partner for the best interest of our son but its becoming too much as I feel I'm not happy and she's taking up too much of my energy by being greedy and only thinking about herself.
If someone could please help me I would appreciate it very much.
My birth date is 24th August 1977 I currently live in Australia.

Thank you very much...............

Oh it's my first time here and forgot to ask a question.....

Will our relationship improve and be long lasting?

Hi Kyle,

I can feel your desperation, it is breaking your heart isn't it? You have both done so well and have really tried to make things work. Many would have left before now I am sure but as you say you have a beautiful child to think about now too.  Having young children is never easy and having a child as young as eighteen months means that perhaps your partner is suffering from the blues. Many hormonal changes take place after the birth, and our whole mindset changes too. We have to realise that suddenly our whole world is different and that we can never go back to how we were, instead things have to change constantly as the baby grows up. Many male partners feel stressed during these first few years. They feel the child has taken their place and taken over the place they had in their partner's life, suddenly they are not the most important person anymore. But this you must already know.

If you take  that thought to the next step and look back at the circumstances surrounding your relationship, the reasons suddenly become clearer as to why you feel this way now? Your relationship is still in its infancy and hasn't been allowed to develop at it's own pace, instead you were propelled headlong into a full blown relationship.  You feel that your partner has turned her back and instead of being loving and giving has become greedy and snatching and demanding. Most probably tired and worn out and lacking in interest as well.All these are part of the normal phase, life isn't always rosey, and we have to remember that life is a circle, one season follows the next, the sun follows the moon and the good times the bad.

I suggest that your way forward is to talk I see a peace offering, an olive branch or a single flower. Could you try a special evening, a meal quietly and alone just the two of you with no distractions? And then explain how you feel and talk gently about how you think. But before you do this, you have to decide what it is you want to say. Do you want to work this out or do you want to move on? Be sure.

At the moment the crossroads has more than one path that you can take, you can go back or forward or sidestep or try a whole new direction. I feel that there is a lot of tension and pent up passion still in the relationship and that needs to be allowed to surface and be embraced so that you both feel better. Have you tried a hug out of the blue? Do either of you ever cry? There is a lot of tears held back and they need to come out too.

No-one can make decisions for you, the responsibility is yours and yours alone, you will have to live with your decisions and actions and I am sure that deep down inside you have the strength and energy to make everyone happy, and that includes you! There are more ways than you think ;)

Many blessings to you all,