Ok
Its your choice on what you decide.
But i will leave you with one train of thought, you have put a lot of reasoning for your judgement on the reading of one psychic but what if hes wrong. and you will spend the rest of your life with the "what if"

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If you ask her out to coffee then its a neutral enviroment that will let you get an answer without having to do a bigger commitment by asking for a real date

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It alot easier to be knocked back for coffee.
Please take this oppertunity on board theres not much to loose.
And no im not going to call you girly names.
Cheers Pete.