To be candid, I put this in the Tarot forum, but no takers there. I read Tarot, but filter a bit, and could really use accurate help.

3 themes have been following me for some time and I am wondering when they will end, and if they will end in a positive way.


The one bothering me most is I am involved in a very long work dispute with someone who is extremely vindictive. This person is very unstable and has done some terrible things, all of which she has gotten in trouble for, but it doesn not deter her. This dispute is going to be refereed by someone of authority in shortly, and I am hopeful it will be resolved both on financial and moral grounds in my favor.

Please let me know if: this dispute will end favorably for me on these fronts.


The second theme has been a close relationship which has become quarrelsome. There is tension and we fight. It is emotionally draining. I am trying to improve this relationship because it means a great deal to me, but I feel like the other person is not as available emotionally. How do you see this going for me? Any comments?

Thirdly, will my business ever get out of its growing pains?

Hey hon'  I wanted to respond to you about your issues....

The first one, I would say goes in your favor, but I keep getting that it won't be as cut and dry as you want it to be... Also I would always keep an eye out on the co-worker that is causing problems, as she will not stop just because this is resolved... (even if it was in her favor), you seem to be some kind of a threat to her.... so watch out for her to keep at it... Eventually she will have to stop or go work someplace else... but I don't see this as the ending to your dealings with her.....

Second, Although I know that this person isn't giving you what you feel like you need right now, however,  I think that you are carrying over work stuff to this relationship... I would look to see is you are perhaps wanting more than you have been and the other person is perhaps in fact needed extra attention too at this point in their life. Try being understanding of what is going on there and I think that you will find everything that you are searching for in this relationship... And remember that everyone quarrels, and that in the end if it doesn't break you it makes you stronger... I also want to tell you advice my mom gave me a long time ago and I think about it every time I get mad at D, When you argue with someone you care about before you say something, think about if saying it is worth losing them forever, because it could very well happen. If it isn't worth losing what you have then don't say it, if it is then do.  I find that many times it isn't worth saying it... He means more to me than whatever it is we are arguing about, and the thought of not having him in my life anymore fr out weights the want to say something just to get it out...

Third, Okay I know it seems like everything is piling up on you, and this is just another straw to the camel's back, but if you are patient you will get what you are seeking in all these things... you just have to endure to get the rewards....

I hope that this helps...

Light, Love, and Blessings,
                                       Nyte

Thanks Nyte,

I appreciate your input. I agree this person may not stop. I am hoping that resolving the problem will curtail their efforts to ruin things for me.

I think your mom is right and that will help me a lot. I wish I would think more about what I am going to say, before saying it.

Thanks again.

*smile* I am just glad to be of some help! My mom is really smart!! *smile* I am lucky to have her... and it is surprising how that will stick with you... I try to pass it on to everyone that I can, and they usually tell me that they can't forget it once I do. I hope that it will help you as much as it has me... (I actually have a REALLY bad temper.... ) good luck with all of it and let me know how you are doing!