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Posts: 5 · Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 5:36 am

I need a reading. There are a few girls i am interested in. There is a blond and a brunette. also, there is this chick from a different state who really likes me but i really dont feel the same.
who would be most compatible? or someone else completely?
If you need more information than this, just say so, but im really confused on which to choose.

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:11 pm

As if I understand what you have said correctly you are not presently in any form of relationship with any of these girls, then it is impossible for us to determine which if any is compatible with you through giving you a reading. I also wonder how you plan to carry on a long term relationship with a girl from another state if you have never met her face to face, beyond perhaps texting her, or chatting over the internet.

The only useful information which I feel you could possibly offer me is as to just how you got along when you went out with each other. Since I am not even sure you have approached any of the girls yet and have told them that you are interested in getting to know each of them better (which is surely the best way to begin any mature relationship), there is really nothing on which to base a reading.

I may be reading something into this that is not actually true, but could the main appeal to you of the girl from another state be that you will be less likely to ever meet her, therefore reducing your own fears of being rejected? Please take it from me that most if not all of those love compatibility readings are essentially useless. I have seen cases where the couple's compatibility score is in the 90% range, and their relationship turns out to be a total disaster (put this down to the complex nature of human behaviour).

My advice would be to make a list of all the positive qualities you are looking for in a partner, as well as those things you are unwilling to put up with on a daily basis, then visit the places in your local area where you would most expect to meet that type of "chick", rather than attempting to truly get to know a girl by long distance. Everyone feels to a varying degree confused and lacking in self confidence when they first start meeting the opposite sex (men and women).

Welcome to human relationships class 101!

Regards,

eye_of_tiger