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eye_of_tiger
Approved Reader
Age: 59 Zodiac: 
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Location: Adelaide, South Australia
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 Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:43 am |
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Dear Louise, 
You say that things are now very different between you and you talk a lot again with each other, but are you meeting each other regularly face to face, and if you are is he willing to also talk about the subjects which are important to you?
Your reading request made late last month (from which I learned your name) indicates that you have a chequered history of men showing a passing interest in you, before leaving you high and dry once again, without offering you any valid explanation as to why this should be. It seems to me that this has happened so frequently to you in the past that you are now understandably almost expecting it to happen again with this man. This could easily become a self fulfilling prophecy in that by continuing to focus on your belief that it seems inevitable that this will happen to you repeatedly throughout your life, that you could quite unintentionally be producing the very condition which you most fear - being lonely, and without a suitable partner.
If after ringing you every two months or so he is now wanting to at least talk more frequently to you again then why is it that you believe this is simply too good to be true? My feelings are that you are continuing to carry with you into any future relationship you might have either with this particular man or someone else needless feelings of guilt that the previous men left you because of some perceived fault of your own. While it is true that each partner must accept some responsibility for what happens or does not happen within their relationship, you are I sense taking on his share of the responsibility as being necessarily your own. No wonder then that your feelings of self esteem are currently so low, and that you are constantly watching out for the first subtle signs that history is repeating itself yet again.
While you should go into this relationship with your eyes fully open, make every attempt not to see possible treachery and infidelity in everything he says or does not say. Try to remain as positive as possible that this relationship is going to be the one to break your pattern of heartache once and for all, and do not constantly look the gift horse in it's mouth. In other words, he needs to earn your trust by his actions as well as his words.
At least be willing to give each other and yourselves a fairer go, and allow your relationship to develop in the proper fullness of time, rather than trying to always push things along too fast, according to your own time schedule. Taking things slowly but surely is often the wiser strategy in life, including with regards to matters of the heart?
I would not wish to make any actual predictions as to if and when your relationship is going from here on, and I feel that a Life Path reading would only be misinterpreted to mean that the many complex factors affecting your relationship are largely beyond your control. This is I believe far from being the case. Poor communication is frequently a potential source of problems for many couples. Are you each carefully listening to what the other person needs to be able to tell you, or are you both alternately simply talking AT your partner?
Loving regards,
eye_of_tiger 
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lstar33
Age: 29 Zodiac:
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| Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:54 am |
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Thank you very much.
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