I am sorry to ask for a reading so soon after joining but I really do have a reason behind it.  I have been going through a bad time lately and I wonder if anyone could pick up on it and give me some comfort.  I am desperate for some peace.  I know it will take time but a little help would be very much appreciated.

Hey Sweetie,

               I just wanted to let you know that what I am getting, isn't so much about your troubles but more about you, personally. I feel like you don't have someone that you feel comfortable talking to about your issues going on, and that in turn is stressing you out.... Since I am unsure about what your troubles are, I would like to suggest a few things that could help with the overwhelming feelings that I am picking up from you.

First of all you need to not think about it so much, watch a movie, do a puzzle, take a bath and listen to your favorite songs.... Just anything that will help you focus on something else completely, and if you feel that trouble starting to edge in shut it out, push it away and remember that when we are not so stressed we can look at these things differently and they don't seem so surmountable. Just try yo do a little something for like 30 mins to an hour a day and the way you feel will change and in changing that you will be able to be even more positive about what is going on than what you are (knowing that it won't last and that there will be an end to it....) Remember that although we don't know each other very well on here... there is a lot of love and friendship on this board, and if you ever need someone to talk to about it, I am here.... If you want to take me up on the offer... if not then I understand that too. Good luck hon'

I hope that this helps you in some way,
                                                         Light, Love, and Blessings,
                                                                                               Nyte

Thank you for your advice I really appreciate it and thanks for letting me know you are there.

You are right I dont feel like I have anyone to talk to at the minute.  The truth of it is my dad passed away extremely suddenly a couple of weeks ago.  My husband believes that what is going to happen will happen so I dont feel like I can talk to him and I am trying so hard to be strong for her.  So I am trying to shut everything out but its just hurting so much inside.

My dad used to see spirits in his house and when I sat with him when he died I told him he must come back and see me and let me know he is ok but I have heard, seen or felt nothing and I just cant bear it.

Thanks again  x

Mum2jo,

I know how you feel!  I've been going through some tough times lately and have no one to talk to.  I know how much it hurts to keep it all inside.

If you need to talk, I'm here, too.  My Mother passed away 33 years ago and it still feels almost like it was yesterday.  Some more things have happened recently which really messed me up and I am soooooooooo tired of hearing people say, "Just get over it"!

If you wanna just vent, I'm here to listen and I promise I won't judge you!!!

In the meantime, just remember you really aren't alone.  You will find some great comfort here -- I have!!  And I can't believe how quickly it happened for me!!!

Thank you so very much.  I really do appreciate your friendship.  I really wish I could get a sign.  Something concrete so I know he is around me.